narcissist
Master Don Juan
What going on guys! My 500th post here on SoSuave.
I couldnt ask to be apart of a more inspiring community.
My Journey:
8 months ago when I broke up with my ex for cheating on me, I was devastated. Never thought I would see the day when she sucked another d1ck and hopped on top another dude's c0ck. But it happened, and I was heartbroken. I implemented No Contact IMMEDIATELY and INDEFINITELY. Threw her sh1t to the curb and the last words I ever said to her were "your sh1t is outside, go get it," she begged and pleaded but I stayed strong and didnt break NC.
And boom! 8 months later I am a completely different person. I have slept with like 8-9 girls since then. Been on an absurd amount of dates. Went through 1400 matches on tinder. Cold approached. And ultimately improved my game vastly, from being an AFC who drove the girl he lost his virginity too to being a Don Juan in apprenticeship.
Beyond that I gained 27 pounds in the last 8 months from bulking, And overall around 48 pounds in total from the beginning of working out two years ago. I have read a sh1t ton of books. Worked on controlling my emotions and being more positive, meditated like crazy, wrote in a journal, quit a lot of my sh1tty habits like coffee, alcohol, smoking shisha, etc. etc. (Im still trying to quit fapping lol). Last but not least I improved my grades in university vastly and got accepted into the psychology specialist program.
These are but the mere things that I have done over the past 8 months to improve my lifestyle and my overall experience in life. The reason why I say this is because I would NOT have been able to do those things WITHOUT the help of this community! This community pushed me to my limits! and continues to be a backbone for my improvement as a person! I just want to thank you all from the bottom of my heart. You have shone the light of life on me and have given me a vast array of wisdom, that at my age is going to make me an amazing human being.
What I have learned in the process!
1] Bettering yourself everyday is the path we should all be on!
This is probably the most important thing that I have personally learned by reading all of the beautiful information on this website. There is nothing more valuable, in my humble opinion, then waking up everyday and pushing your limits and goals and visions to become the best damn person you can possibly be. Workout, eat healthy, eradicate bad habits, implement good habits, be positive, eliminate negativity, read relentlessly, keep a journal, be punctual, learn an instrument or new language, become a master at something you love, start and tackle a hobby uncompromisingly.
Doing sh1t each and everyday that will make you a better person, compiled over weeks, months, years, decades will add up and ultimately define who you are. Do NOT LET ANYTHING come in the way of you achieving that! Mould yourself like clay or marble into a masterpiece. You are Michelangelo and your life is like the block of marble. It is up to you to chip away at it and turn it into a David.
2] Face your fears
Another important factor in life is to face our fears. Fear of rejection, fear of anxiety, fear of ridicule, fear of success, fear of failure, fear of fear!
If we don't face our fears head on we never realize one important tenant. Fears are AN ILLUSION! They are nothing. When we face our fears, our fear SHEDS AWAY. Like it was never there to begin with. But when we let fear run our life then we build up justifications that strengthen those fears an they become deep-rooted and embedded in our soul or psyche. Ultimately, if we let this happen we will MISS OUT on important experiences in life that make it more FULFILLING. We will die one day. Nothing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING should stand in our way of getting what we want.
Realize this. Fear is the BIGGEST barrier to success as a person. It will make your life a living hell if you let it run the way you think. So go out and face your fears.
Fear rejection? go get rejected 1000 times.
Fear anxiety? Go do stand up comedy.
Fear of success? fvcking SUCCEED.
3] Be positive
This is one of my main tenants in life. The way you think has a HUGE impact on the way your life turns out.
You can look at life through many different filters but the main two are positive and negative. Having a positive mind state will go ALONG fvcking way. A homeless person who is positive will live a far happier life then a multimillionaire who is negative.
When you are positive people are drawn to you, you make everything more fun and happy. Don't take life too seriously, our existence is absurd so laugh at it rather than have existential fits.
I think this one really speaks for it self. But nonetheless, many people know this is common sense but continue on their path of negativity, because it is hard to break off of a path that has been justified for years. I beg of you all, if you know you are negative, fvck everything else, worry about shifting yourself into the positive path, it will change your entire life.
4] Eradicate limiting beliefs they are socially constructed
We all have a belief system. What we believe we can do, what we believe we cant do. I say fvck all that. We should believe we can do anything we want. If I say "hey Im going to make 999 trillion dollars" and truly put my mind to it? Ill at least make millions.
This goes for women too. If anything this is one of the biggest most important tenants to understand about women. When you truly in your heart and mind believe you can have any woman in the world you will get a lot of them. Yes obviously some will reject you, BUT you will get WAY more women believing that you can have any woman you want rather than having a limiting belief that only some women you are destined to have. Its definitely an abstract thought. But having ZERO limiting beliefs will bring an UNSTOPPABLE confidence that everyone will sense.
5] When dealing with women HAVE FUN and DONT make these bishes your life goal!
Last but not least, I will say this. Women are just a side project, a little bit of fun to have in your life. Getting women to sleep with you is FUN. I like vagina. But a lot of the guys on here are bitter, jaded, angry and almost have it out for women. Its like when they sleep with a women they are GETTING BACK AT THEM. Like "hahaha I beat your socially constructed sh1t tests" etc, etc,. That is a sure fire way to not be happy, and turn yourself into a sociopath. I say fvck that. Once I stop having fun picking up women I will cease to do it. And so should all of you. If a woman rejects you LAUGH, If a woman flakes? Smile and move on. And when a woman sleeps with you? Enjoy the fvck out of it!
Last but not least. Do NOT make women your life! This is a sure fire way to become jaded, upset, bitter, and a whole bunch of other negative adjectives. They are but a side project. A periphery hobby. Nothing too serious.
Make your goal bettering yourself. Make your life about YOU. You are the prize. You are the block of marble that needs to be turned into a masterpiece. Remember that!
Anyways, I will keep it at 5 things. Ive learned a lot more too, but one main thing that Ive learned is to keep it simple and don't over analyze your life with mindless information. Your brain can only take in so much. Pick 5 things to live by and do that for a couple years. If it doesn't work? change the 5 things. Life is simple, if you make it simple!
Enjoy the day fellas! its fvcking beautiful out. And Thank you so much for all the invaluable information, motivation, and support you have all given me!!
Love you guys!
I couldnt ask to be apart of a more inspiring community.
My Journey:
8 months ago when I broke up with my ex for cheating on me, I was devastated. Never thought I would see the day when she sucked another d1ck and hopped on top another dude's c0ck. But it happened, and I was heartbroken. I implemented No Contact IMMEDIATELY and INDEFINITELY. Threw her sh1t to the curb and the last words I ever said to her were "your sh1t is outside, go get it," she begged and pleaded but I stayed strong and didnt break NC.
And boom! 8 months later I am a completely different person. I have slept with like 8-9 girls since then. Been on an absurd amount of dates. Went through 1400 matches on tinder. Cold approached. And ultimately improved my game vastly, from being an AFC who drove the girl he lost his virginity too to being a Don Juan in apprenticeship.
Beyond that I gained 27 pounds in the last 8 months from bulking, And overall around 48 pounds in total from the beginning of working out two years ago. I have read a sh1t ton of books. Worked on controlling my emotions and being more positive, meditated like crazy, wrote in a journal, quit a lot of my sh1tty habits like coffee, alcohol, smoking shisha, etc. etc. (Im still trying to quit fapping lol). Last but not least I improved my grades in university vastly and got accepted into the psychology specialist program.
These are but the mere things that I have done over the past 8 months to improve my lifestyle and my overall experience in life. The reason why I say this is because I would NOT have been able to do those things WITHOUT the help of this community! This community pushed me to my limits! and continues to be a backbone for my improvement as a person! I just want to thank you all from the bottom of my heart. You have shone the light of life on me and have given me a vast array of wisdom, that at my age is going to make me an amazing human being.
What I have learned in the process!
1] Bettering yourself everyday is the path we should all be on!
This is probably the most important thing that I have personally learned by reading all of the beautiful information on this website. There is nothing more valuable, in my humble opinion, then waking up everyday and pushing your limits and goals and visions to become the best damn person you can possibly be. Workout, eat healthy, eradicate bad habits, implement good habits, be positive, eliminate negativity, read relentlessly, keep a journal, be punctual, learn an instrument or new language, become a master at something you love, start and tackle a hobby uncompromisingly.
Doing sh1t each and everyday that will make you a better person, compiled over weeks, months, years, decades will add up and ultimately define who you are. Do NOT LET ANYTHING come in the way of you achieving that! Mould yourself like clay or marble into a masterpiece. You are Michelangelo and your life is like the block of marble. It is up to you to chip away at it and turn it into a David.
2] Face your fears
Another important factor in life is to face our fears. Fear of rejection, fear of anxiety, fear of ridicule, fear of success, fear of failure, fear of fear!
If we don't face our fears head on we never realize one important tenant. Fears are AN ILLUSION! They are nothing. When we face our fears, our fear SHEDS AWAY. Like it was never there to begin with. But when we let fear run our life then we build up justifications that strengthen those fears an they become deep-rooted and embedded in our soul or psyche. Ultimately, if we let this happen we will MISS OUT on important experiences in life that make it more FULFILLING. We will die one day. Nothing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING should stand in our way of getting what we want.
Realize this. Fear is the BIGGEST barrier to success as a person. It will make your life a living hell if you let it run the way you think. So go out and face your fears.
Fear rejection? go get rejected 1000 times.
Fear anxiety? Go do stand up comedy.
Fear of success? fvcking SUCCEED.
3] Be positive
This is one of my main tenants in life. The way you think has a HUGE impact on the way your life turns out.
You can look at life through many different filters but the main two are positive and negative. Having a positive mind state will go ALONG fvcking way. A homeless person who is positive will live a far happier life then a multimillionaire who is negative.
When you are positive people are drawn to you, you make everything more fun and happy. Don't take life too seriously, our existence is absurd so laugh at it rather than have existential fits.
I think this one really speaks for it self. But nonetheless, many people know this is common sense but continue on their path of negativity, because it is hard to break off of a path that has been justified for years. I beg of you all, if you know you are negative, fvck everything else, worry about shifting yourself into the positive path, it will change your entire life.
4] Eradicate limiting beliefs they are socially constructed
We all have a belief system. What we believe we can do, what we believe we cant do. I say fvck all that. We should believe we can do anything we want. If I say "hey Im going to make 999 trillion dollars" and truly put my mind to it? Ill at least make millions.
This goes for women too. If anything this is one of the biggest most important tenants to understand about women. When you truly in your heart and mind believe you can have any woman in the world you will get a lot of them. Yes obviously some will reject you, BUT you will get WAY more women believing that you can have any woman you want rather than having a limiting belief that only some women you are destined to have. Its definitely an abstract thought. But having ZERO limiting beliefs will bring an UNSTOPPABLE confidence that everyone will sense.
5] When dealing with women HAVE FUN and DONT make these bishes your life goal!
Last but not least, I will say this. Women are just a side project, a little bit of fun to have in your life. Getting women to sleep with you is FUN. I like vagina. But a lot of the guys on here are bitter, jaded, angry and almost have it out for women. Its like when they sleep with a women they are GETTING BACK AT THEM. Like "hahaha I beat your socially constructed sh1t tests" etc, etc,. That is a sure fire way to not be happy, and turn yourself into a sociopath. I say fvck that. Once I stop having fun picking up women I will cease to do it. And so should all of you. If a woman rejects you LAUGH, If a woman flakes? Smile and move on. And when a woman sleeps with you? Enjoy the fvck out of it!
Last but not least. Do NOT make women your life! This is a sure fire way to become jaded, upset, bitter, and a whole bunch of other negative adjectives. They are but a side project. A periphery hobby. Nothing too serious.
Make your goal bettering yourself. Make your life about YOU. You are the prize. You are the block of marble that needs to be turned into a masterpiece. Remember that!
Anyways, I will keep it at 5 things. Ive learned a lot more too, but one main thing that Ive learned is to keep it simple and don't over analyze your life with mindless information. Your brain can only take in so much. Pick 5 things to live by and do that for a couple years. If it doesn't work? change the 5 things. Life is simple, if you make it simple!
Enjoy the day fellas! its fvcking beautiful out. And Thank you so much for all the invaluable information, motivation, and support you have all given me!!
Love you guys!
