"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My 30 day fast experience

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Was sup everyone I gave up facebook,sosuave and many other sites for 30 days and focused on other stuff, I'll just briefly go other a couple of things I've learned

1. Time moves on with or without you
I often saw time as something I had to use, but over time I've learned to make use of time, and become aware of circumstances from my use of time. I've learned to be on time for work and other things, like picking up my date up on time(i know afc right lol).

2.Waking up early helps
I used to believe that waking up early was a waste of time, and only woke up early unless i had to, like school or court whateva the case ma be. I started waking up at 8am early morning and running for 25 mins a day. Followign this routine for 30 days has been great. I feel great all day, and I'm in state and go with the flow damn near everyday now. I been vegetation for 9 months already , but if i wasnt that was be my new habit also

3.Managing My time
I often attempted to finish every task the same day I started, or just went endlessy without a purpose like for instance reading a book and falling alseep after 1 hour and never finishing the book, this often waas my life,I would start something and never finish it. This went from mentoring younger students to starting projects for my business and things were always going sideways.. then i found about micro-managing my time. basically If I knew i could only read a book for a hour I would just read a book for 1 hour a day till I finished it. If i had a paper or task needed to be done, I would work on it 30 min a day for 2 weeks and be finished on time. Instead of putting it for 2 weeks until the day before and putting together some bull****.

4. Learned lots of knowledge and gave it, but never used it
I had read tons of articles and stories on girls, networking how to start a business, how to persuade people, etc and never used any of it. I started to take my own advice and things have been going smoother for me. I now dont recommend advice that I havent already tried myself, I see a huge number of people doing this online & offline.

5. Family matters most
I've been spending alot more time getting to know my lil bro, hes entering high school this year. I've been teaching him how to manipulate the high school society system. I used to think, he didnt pay me any attention because he was a ******* but iw as the *******, I started taking him out more, and my lil cousins and taking them on dates with me and showing thim what to do and what not to do. They've been very open-minded and were all more closer than ever, they will most-def have a step up in high school and life overall, I'm the big brother of 7 kids so there was no one to teach me all this stuff at home, like i wanted.

6.Contact your contacts
I started also reaching out to someone new everyday, either in my phonebook or randomly on the street. this has had tredious effects on my social life, I'm no longer hanging out with the same group of people every weekend,. Also me restalbishing relationships have opened more doors for my business.


The list goes on and on I learned alot from http://www.stevepavlina.com check this dude out he is amazing

I'm in chicago, and I'm starting a group pretty soon just for people to social and have fun together twice a month or something who knows :rock:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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rhodey

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imaginemypotential said:
Was sup everyone I gave up facebook,sosuave and many other sites for 30 days and focused on other stuff, I'll just briefly go other a couple of things I've learned

1. Time moves on with or without you
I often saw time as something I had to use, but over time I've learned to make use of time, and become aware of circumstances from my use of time. I've learned to be on time for work and other things, like picking up my date up on time(i know afc right lol).

2.Waking up early helps
I used to believe that waking up early was a waste of time, and only woke up early unless i had to, like school or court whateva the case ma be. I started waking up at 8am early morning and running for 25 mins a day. Followign this routine for 30 days has been great. I feel great all day, and I'm in state and go with the flow damn near everyday now. I been vegetation for 9 months already , but if i wasnt that was be my new habit also

3.Managing My time
I often attempted to finish every task the same day I started, or just went endlessy without a purpose like for instance reading a book and falling alseep after 1 hour and never finishing the book, this often waas my life,I would start something and never finish it. This went from mentoring younger students to starting projects for my business and things were always going sideways.. then i found about micro-managing my time. basically If I knew i could only read a book for a hour I would just read a book for 1 hour a day till I finished it. If i had a paper or task needed to be done, I would work on it 30 min a day for 2 weeks and be finished on time. Instead of putting it for 2 weeks until the day before and putting together some bull****.

4. Learned lots of knowledge and gave it, but never used it
I had read tons of articles and stories on girls, networking how to start a business, how to persuade people, etc and never used any of it. I started to take my own advice and things have been going smoother for me. I now dont recommend advice that I havent already tried myself, I see a huge number of people doing this online & offline.

5. Family matters most
I've been spending alot more time getting to know my lil bro, hes entering high school this year. I've been teaching him how to manipulate the high school society system. I used to think, he didnt pay me any attention because he was a ******* but iw as the *******, I started taking him out more, and my lil cousins and taking them on dates with me and showing thim what to do and what not to do. They've been very open-minded and were all more closer than ever, they will most-def have a step up in high school and life overall, I'm the big brother of 7 kids so there was no one to teach me all this stuff at home, like i wanted.

6.Contact your contacts
I started also reaching out to someone new everyday, either in my phonebook or randomly on the street. this has had tredious effects on my social life, I'm no longer hanging out with the same group of people every weekend,. Also me restalbishing relationships have opened more doors for my business.


The list goes on and on I learned alot from http://www.stevepavlina.com check this dude out he is amazing

I'm in chicago, and I'm starting a group pretty soon just for people to social and have fun together twice a month or something who knows :rock:
7. Getting clowned on Zenmack.com is enough to cause you not to post for a month!:moon:
 
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rhodey said:
7. Getting clowned on Zenmack.com is enough to cause you not to post for a month!:moon:

he must had payed you to come on here lol, fanboy
 
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