"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My 21st Birthday

CORVETTE06

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This weekend is my 21st birthday.

A lot of my friends are coming to hang out with me at the club.

However, I think it might be a sausage fest since there aren't going to be many girls coming. (There will be a few girls coming.. The club is 21 to enter, and most of the girls I know aren't 21 yet.)

Am I going to look like a loser to my friends? Personally, I don't care.. im happy to be with the people who are there..

Also, I don't think it would be right if i went into the crowd and tried to pick up chicks considering all my friends are coming out for MY birthday. They will be insulted if I spend all my time talking to some hoe I just met.

What are your thoughts?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Phyzzle

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Also, I don't think it would be right if i went into the crowd and tried to pick up chicks considering all my friends are coming out for MY birthday. They will be insulted if I spend all my time talking to some hoe I just met.
Therefore, introduce her to your friends!?

Plus, you have no experience in a club before today? I wouldn't expect fireworks to happen with any random hos.
 

The Inside Man

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When I turned 21 I got so drunk I could barely string together a few words. Just go out and have fun, but if you see a hot girl chat it up because you never know what could happen.
 
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