"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My 1st time sarging

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Well it all started with 6 pints and ended in a different country. Ended in Bristol. So I thought to myself screw it I'm here now (8 pints) so I HAVE to make the most of it. I met a friend who lives there and he agreed to wing me.

My plan was not to even bother trying to close, I just wanted experience in the field. So I started walking to groups saying something like hey guys, can i stop you a sec. Then Id ask for a direction. Then Id say something like, so wheres good and start fluff talking. Maybe chuck in a routine like the friends test. After a few mins Id have my arm around my target, neg her (only approached 8 plus hb). I used a neg saying something like wow that perfume is really nice for fake stuff. I said to one ohh can i have a cuddle, she said yes (IOI?). Smelt most of their necks (shoulda kissed, biten?). I tried 1 of my own made up routines where my mate will say about me being a fireman (though im not) I need pics in my phone with the cloths on.... Worked really well.

All in all I did about 8 approaches, mainly groups, only went out to approach, didnt bother any closes.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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call me crazy but did u just ask if u should have bitten them?
 
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bite their neck, its a sexual thing.
 
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Biting is fun... as long as you don't come off as a creepy sicko. :) Generally you need to come off as very playful to pull that off with new girls.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by S0LID
Well it all started with 6 pints and
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I'm not sure what you mean...so you drank?

It's great that you've started sarging, but I'd recommend you start doing them while sober. You don't want to rely on that liquid confidence.

Do them in the day time first, then try night time. I'm not saying you can't, I'm just saying you will excel a lot better that way.

biting? lol :woo:
 
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Congratulations for getting started dude. So now make sure to go out again soon and approach further. ;)
 
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It was mad, as soon as I appraoched i turned into this loud, crowed pleasing centre of attention, s0lid my alter ego.
 
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My plan was not to even bother trying to close, I just wanted experience in the field. So I started walking to groups saying something like hey guys, can i stop you a sec. Then Id ask for a direction. Then Id say something like, so wheres good and start fluff talking. Maybe chuck in a routine like the friends test. After a few mins Id have my arm around my target, neg her (only approached 8 plus hb). I used a neg saying something like wow that perfume is really nice for fake stuff. I said to one ohh can i have a cuddle, she said yes (IOI?). Smelt most of their necks (shoulda kissed, biten?). I tried 1 of my own made up routines where my mate will say about me being a fireman (though im not) I need pics in my phone with the cloths on.... Worked really well.
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thats awesome that you went out and sarged..

but yet youve flamed me and called me a women :)

interesting.

so where you nervous before hand or did the Alcohal take the edge off? or is pints gasoline
 
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Lagger :D

I'm not sarging for a while (maybe a week friday), I just want to focus on finishing my books, The Game by Style, a NLP book, Lay Guide, body language book, magic tricks book, and a hypnosis book.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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by the time I got there I was sobour. When I'm drunk I just like to curl into a corner.

I'm going to try a new neg i thought of in the field next time. Ohhh you smell really nice, it's not bad for fake stuff!!

I still cant beleive this ug my mate was talking to. I walked over to her and started making fluff talk and I said to her omg what perfume are you wearing?? tabbaco isit? SMACK
 
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Originally posted by S0LID


I'm going to try a new neg i thought of in the field next time. Ohhh you smell really nice, it's not bad for fake stuff!!
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LAME.

Try this one instead:

Nice perfume. I think my granny wears the same.
 
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I like it.
 
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club sarge

Loud club

me- How did you end in barrons :eek:

hb7- Oh im with my best mate

me- so what uni are you in (as its a student night)?

hb7- Im not in uni I live in cardiff

me- omg why the hell? Cardiff has amazing night life.

hb7- yeah I dont think i'll be coming here again

me- see your not as stupid as you look.

hb7- :eek:

she talked to me a bit about her job as a makeup artist then I did a takeaway and turned to face my friend.

few mins later

me- I know why your sitting here. It's for the mirror!

more fluff, she says she hates me :D

I do another take away and she grabs my shoulder to pull me back.

things are going really well, I say are you on MSN? she says no

her friend grabs her onto the dance floor

bye

Lesson learned about the msn close- if she says no say how the hell do you keep in contct with people then?? she says phone, pull yours out and say oh ok thats kool.


2nd approach, i see 2 drunk grls outside, their walking. i run the who do you think lies more opener. Their too drunk for my games so I put my arm around her and fluff talk her, telling her that her perfume is really nice, it's the same one which my nan uses. I ask her for a cuddle and number tie, despite her b/f. And a got a quick kiss on the lips by using the Mystery kiss close AKA asking her if SHED like to kiss YOU.

I deleted that number tho, it is just all in gd fun.

I then started hitting on this girl I know saying stuff like "ya lucky your cute", I like that neg, soft and powerful, the one which works best though is the "is that your real hair?" Anyways, she was asking if she could start training with me, i said no, I'll always be trying to pull you! she kept persisting. She is a bit of a tease, I'm not really into her or any other girl really, all I care about is perfecting my Game.

My AFC wingman was a bit annoying tho. He was telling grls how much he liked them in the approach, he had low to no standards, if I teased a girl he was getting angry, he gave his burger to a girl!

My Game is still a bit wobbly. I need a few hundred approaches. I'm reading The Layguide at the moment so my Game should be good after this. My inner Game is getting really strong tho, I'm starting to get this really high self esteem and I feel invincible almost, like a girl
 
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