my 1st time completely ruining sumthing beyond repair, yet I want to repair

[Dante420]

I ruined this beyond repair by hanging out with her 3 times in a week making things more prone to being unexciting (by the third day she wasn't excited to see me, on the first day she was telling me I was amazing while putting herself in my arms to hold her. Now I figured out that she has a little bit of a serious thing going on and I let that ruin things, we smoked together and things just got quiet, awkward and unsociable. I made myself look like a feel, for some reason this was the one time I got high and wasn't functionable even though normally I can do anything while being high like its nothing. No more weed now, I'm quitting after today. It's not financially viable to spend money on a bag that gets smoked up anyways, I should spend my money in investments and gold.........anyways I ruined this AND made myself look like a fool, she even said "You clearly can't function while your high" even though we had a history of extensive smoking in the past and I picked her up on day 1 high as a kite.

So ya. anyway to bounce back?

 

[Dante420]

marijuana is stupid... it kills your ambition and makes sociable situations akward... i used to smoke but i quit b/c i'm a healthy mother fvcker now!

Why are we the only two people to my knowledge to ever realize this?

 

[starplayer]

I've had this sort of thing happen with some random girl I slept with. We were chilling in her bed after, everything was great, we were vibing really well and she was all over me. Anyway, we decided to smoke some weed she had and things got very awkward very quickly. We went to sleep and it was ok again when we woke up luckily.

I used to smoke everyday. At first it made me more sociable but in the end it made me paranoid and lazy so I quit. One of the best things I ever did, especially when I see my friends i used to smoke with wasting their lives.

I don't think it gets talked about enough on this forum and I know a lot of guys would probably disagree with me, but if you smoke a lot of weed you really gotta stop. When I quit cold turkey it was like waking up and seeing the world in a different light.

I'm so much more confident now than when I used to be high all the time. I'm never going back to that. Never.

 

[Dante420]

wow guess I really am quitting. thanks for the post

 

[Exhumed]

Yeah agreed. I'm so much more confident, and I have so much more time to do other things, since I stopped smoking every day...I still smoke once every two weeks or so, but it's usually towards the end of the night when I'm just hanging with dudes and not planning on socializing for much longer anyways.

And I too have had a disastrous situation involving marijuana and trying to hook up...it doesn't work. She was into me, I knew she was into me, yet every step forward felt forced and awkward...we ended up making out when (according to all her friends) I could have easily fvcked her had I been smoother.

Weed is still pretty fun, and I plan to smoke occasionally....but smoking every day simply does not mesh with a productive lifestyle, a good social life, and picking up girls.

 

[Dante420]

Just gonna let this go

 

[The Decay of Meaning]

Weed can be a great thing normally; the way a person react to it depends on the person who uses it, his medical status, his view of life etc.

You can't say weed is good or bad. It can be great at numbing pain or curing diseases, relaxing your mind and body and be social with friends. Yet some people have unhealthy experiences as well.

Bottom line, use it with moderation and its wonderful. Do more and it's uneccesary.

 

[JJ109]

Smoking marijuana ruined my life as I am still mentally recovering from it, I used to smoke weed everyday about three times, my mind just went hay-wire and psychotic (serious).. The day I went cold turkey, my outlook on life, health and my value went sky rocketing. I am way more confident, and I think great thoughts rather than being paranoid when I used to smoke it.

 

[kingsam]

ive heard coke is good for sex.....

 

[Dante420]

Weed can be a great thing normally; the way a person react to it depends on the person who uses it, his medical status, his view of life etc.

You can't say weed is good or bad. It can be great at numbing pain or curing diseases, relaxing your mind and body and be social with friends. Yet some people have unhealthy experiences as well.

Bottom line, use it with moderation and its wonderful. Do more and it's uneccesary.

I know and I agree with everything your saying. I abstain from pharmaceuticals in all forms, I have no need for any prescriptions and I do look highly on the cannabis plant. I've read tons of books on it, I own a library on the subject and most people don't know as much about strains and cannabis genetics as I do, I literally studied it for years. I'm 18 years old now and I realize at this point in time I don't want to be a part of cannabis culture, I'm looking at the lifestyles of the people in my area who use it and that's not what I want out of life at the moment, until I can get to a place like California where I can buy it at a storefront over the counter and have a selection of buds that pleases me.

Smoking marijuana ruined my life as I am still mentally recovering from it, I used to smoke weed everyday about three times, my mind just went hay-wire and psychotic (serious).. The day I went cold turkey, my outlook on life, health and my value went sky rocketing. I am way more confident, and I think great thoughts rather than being paranoid when I used to smoke it.

You sure it wasn't a hallucinogen you took, you try mushrooms? Maybe it's just not for you because it can make your own mental problems SURFACE. I wish you the best of luck in your endeavors and hope you find yourself recovering good. If it's been over 30 days you can rest assured that all the THC is out of your system and within a few more weeks your body should be FULLY re-adjusted to life without cannabinoids


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I guess I put it in fate hands.....BUt someone explain to me. HOW THE **** DID I GET THIS GIRL BACK? She called me today and we talked, she made plans which I canceled then we got back to chilling at the end of the night and she was treating me like a king.



HOW THE **** DOES THIS HAPPEN? I completely ruined this yesterday, I just about spit and stomped on everything. Then now today its fine..............................wtf? I can't believe fate just dealt me a card that I couldn't be more grateful for. I appreciate it so much.

Day 1 dropping out of cannabis culture for the time being.............until it's more economically viable and socially friendly, cause after yesterdays experience it just made things awkward, uncomfortable, shakey, etc.

 

[londonzen]

i smokeb 2 maybe 3 spliffs a week not on school nights

 

[Groovy]

Smoking marijuana is the stupidest thing EVER... It makes you not funcion normally for a long time (AT least me I'm sensitive), it kills your neurons making you stupid (TRUST ME ON THIS!!) and you don't need it anyway!! People take these drugs to feel like happy people feel all the time!

 

[kingsam]

lol, if u have to use coke for sex i feel sorry for you man... i've experienced it and its nothing special... i'm in good enough shape now that i dont even need that crap...

OMG ... i said ive heard that its good for sex ...i.e. some one told me, (a south african i used to know was giving me the details- if you really wanna know)