"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
My 1st Field Report (I'm Goin out Tonight!!)
- Thread starter MercutioTHEGREAT
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Sure you did that, but with other intentions then the pathetic retards.
What I'm trying to point out is that there where some nice convo's in the start of merc's FR but the end is just a little questionable but possible. It's probably not going to get so many good results. As long as you keep that in mind it really doesn't matter if it's true or not. As for anything, you still have to try things that you think might work for you anyway.
(ok that sentence is ****ed up lol)
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It sound like you saying im a pathetic retard but if you say your not then its cool man.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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dont wormmy merc, there will always be hatersOriginally posted by MercutioTHEGREAT
I CAnnot Believe this SH!T
I FVcking go on my 1st field report with all the Little knowledge I have from this site coming on nonstop Trying to figure out what to do with women. Now I'm no player but I'm not an ugly looking dude!!!! Black Italian how Dare you say that I lie man IF I Said I was having Sex till the sunrised Then i would be lieing....Man I was in that sh*t for 15 minutes!!!... My Description of this entire night was a summary of what I did and If I'm Not on the computer 24/7 like most of you then I would have never been abole to do my report. I may not be the best field report writer but dat was my first one....You know what?? what the hell am i explaining to you for??? Dude I hit dat **** and for the 1st time in my life i actually did something WAY out of the norm while plastered and I pulled some chick
Black italian and all you as.sholes thanks for hating on me you internet nerds. Your all haters man and by the way I'm seeing that chick "HB9" tonight at my boyz party..
Why the hell would i lie about dat? You Guys make me sick man..
i believe you and i congradulate you