"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My 1000th Post + A Special Treat For All Of You

Harry Wilmington

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Hey guys!

Welp, this is my 1000th post on these boards, so.... yay!

Yep - after looking at my stats about a week ago, I realized I was only a few 50+ posts away from hitting the 1000 mark. Most of those postings have been me giving advice to people in various posts, with a few ones started by me here and there. During this time, I've been able to help many guys, both on their posts and via messages being sent to me, with various relationship situations they've gone through; have spirited conversations back and forth with members on these boards, some of whom have agreed with my postings and some who have been more than happy to disagree with me; and I've been able to learn a few things as well about dating and relationships that I hadn't considered before. After all this time on these boards, though, there is one thing that I continue to believe in, and it's something I really take to heart...

TEXTING. KILLS. RELATIONSHIPS.

Just had to throw that in there, lol. But seriously: being able to post up on these boards and read the various discussions has been fun for me, and I'm glad a place like SS exists where we in the manosphere can continue to learn from each other.

That's all for now - here's looking forward to the next 1000 posts!

-Harry Wilmington
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Greasy Pig

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Good shyt Harry. Keep up the good work mate!
 

AgesDuctPro

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Congrats on 1000 posts.

Only about OVER 9000 more until you catch up with backbreaker. :up:
 
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