"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I just watched a video about 2014 Roush Mustang stage 3, hoping to see the car. Instead I felt something which I haven't felt for a long time, a pair of hand cuffs on my soul. Because in that video I saw America the way I experienced it for all those 15 years, 15 years in the desert. Just the traffic lights speaks volumes to me, as America is regulated like that, you can't go anywhere without a stop at a traffic light. When the light turns green all the cars launch forward like mad men, like caged men, even Roush Mustang has to press it to get ahead of all those office plankton zombies. Exiting freeway he turns onto exit lane like a saluting pioneer from Soviet Union, trained like a zoo animal to strictly follow traffic law. Then stop at a stop sign, look both ways, and only then drive. My God, the entire America is regulated to the point that freedom is not pictured as wild green pastures, but a barbed wire at a cattle ranch with cattle hurdled into one direction -- look at them, they're running to get fed.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhqOxak4D6Y



There is something magical and soul freeing about certain level of lawlessness. Of course the mad cattle thinks of lawlessness as a scene out of mad max movie. But I assure you, man has a nature to self regulate and live by his morals and principals. Lawlessness then, is not punks driving like crazy on bikes and marauding people. Lawlessness is the absence of regulation and pampering. Lawlessness is freedom, wild green pastures, where you could breath.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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frontseatjuan said:
Is it lawless in Russia?

There is law, but there is no sense of its presence. In terms of murder, rubbery it's rather quiet. In terms of traffic, cops watch solid dividing line, if you cross it, it's license suspension. I just don't cross it, and the law don't mess with me.

I can literally go anywhere, anytime, do anything and not see a single cop. At that I won't get robbed, or murdered.

In Miami, I remember, I better be not driving past midnight, or I will get stopped by cops. I better not be out walking down a street past midnight, I don't know about robbed or murdered, I think not, but I would get stopped by cops for suspicious activity. I better not be drinking a beer in public or it's jail. I remember we lived in an apartment with security. You do your grocery shopping and come home, park next to front door and go get a cart, and they would chase you, you can't park there. Then I remember we couldn't fish past certain hour. It's just can't, can't, can't -- that's all I remember.

You can't breath in America.



TheStig said:
backseatjuan = frontseatjuan?
Buddy, how do you want me to answer that?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't even care about cars anymore, I use to in my younger days when I was caught up in what people thought of me. Now I feel as long as it drives, have cold ac, and the engine is top notch, I wouldn't care at all.
 
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