"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Must watch for anyone struggling to approach/meet chicks.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Good vid's ! That guy makes me laugh.
 

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thanks for posting these.
 

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I'm sure you were browsing through Elliots vids for relationship material Fith :p
 

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Elliott is kind of a weird dude...but I've watched many of his vids and I always enjoy them. He gives good advice. Without all the cussing like the Hodge Twins.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Stort_Brød said:
I'm sure you were browsing through Elliots vids for relationship material Fith :p
hahaah strenght vids, these just popped up on the side - figured id have a look see. :)
 

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So in the first video he basically said to flirt/humor, eye contact, and kino.

The second one he basically says to not be fooled by the sex. That marketing and product example was awesome too.
 

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Wow, this blows me away because I was just preparing an essay on giving girls mini-orgasms by making them laugh. He just did my work for me!

For the past few weeks I've been teasing this woman in an office I visit, making her laugh, blush, look down, etc. It occurred to me that each one of these sessions is a release of emotion for her, essentially a mini-orgasm that I'm giving her. I've been consciously working to rack up a high mini-orgasm count just to see what the result would be, and as I've made her laugh I've noticed that her sexual innuendos have been increasing.

I guess this is why most women in their profiles say they want a man who can make them laugh. The translation from womaneese should be obvious.
 

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The black John Cena lol. That dude tells it how it is. Gotta try that one technique with the giggle-eye-contact balance thing. Great vid.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MidnightCity said:
nothing new here. hes just highlighting attraction/rapport and how they are not mutually exclusive. hes saying most guys focus on rapport and not enough ashole game to get gina tingles
I never said it was new, just one to watch.

Nothing is new anymore, its all the same shiit worded differently, but each time something is reworded, it reaches somebody who couldnt grasp it when told a different way.:up:
 

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The dude is kinda cool/right most of the time I just wish he didn't come off as such a ****y f\/ck know it all.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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