"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Must watch for anyone struggling to approach/meet chicks.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good vid's ! That guy makes me laugh.
 

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thanks for posting these.
 

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I'm sure you were browsing through Elliots vids for relationship material Fith :p
 

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Elliott is kind of a weird dude...but I've watched many of his vids and I always enjoy them. He gives good advice. Without all the cussing like the Hodge Twins.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stort_Brød said:
I'm sure you were browsing through Elliots vids for relationship material Fith :p
hahaah strenght vids, these just popped up on the side - figured id have a look see. :)
 

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So in the first video he basically said to flirt/humor, eye contact, and kino.

The second one he basically says to not be fooled by the sex. That marketing and product example was awesome too.
 

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Wow, this blows me away because I was just preparing an essay on giving girls mini-orgasms by making them laugh. He just did my work for me!

For the past few weeks I've been teasing this woman in an office I visit, making her laugh, blush, look down, etc. It occurred to me that each one of these sessions is a release of emotion for her, essentially a mini-orgasm that I'm giving her. I've been consciously working to rack up a high mini-orgasm count just to see what the result would be, and as I've made her laugh I've noticed that her sexual innuendos have been increasing.

I guess this is why most women in their profiles say they want a man who can make them laugh. The translation from womaneese should be obvious.
 

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The black John Cena lol. That dude tells it how it is. Gotta try that one technique with the giggle-eye-contact balance thing. Great vid.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MidnightCity said:
nothing new here. hes just highlighting attraction/rapport and how they are not mutually exclusive. hes saying most guys focus on rapport and not enough ashole game to get gina tingles
I never said it was new, just one to watch.

Nothing is new anymore, its all the same shiit worded differently, but each time something is reworded, it reaches somebody who couldnt grasp it when told a different way.:up:
 

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The dude is kinda cool/right most of the time I just wish he didn't come off as such a ****y f\/ck know it all.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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