Now that I have you lol....quick question simple answer. I've known this girl fr a while so it's not like I just met er got er number and asked her out. Anyways were going out tonight first date, should I tell her what I have planned like a drive in or just let her think were going to a regular movie theater?
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
I'd act all regular. Don't let her in on it, that way you'll come off as more "adventurous" which they tend to say they like.
Tictac
Banned
Surprise her.