"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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After reading almost everything on this forum and studying everything about the lifestyle that is being a DJ, i was extremely happy that i was able to finally found "the key" to women. the tips on the way to handle my life are the greatest thing i have ever read. Soon enough i came up with this idea: life is a road that we only walk through once. we are billions on this planet and everyday people wake up, eat, poop and decide on how they are gonna walk on that road for another day. the time we get everyday cannot be bought or taken back, it doesnt really matter how rich, successful you are your road is going to have to end one day or another and when we get to the end there is no way to turn back and try to catch all the little things we call "regrets" so dont let yourself have any. We only live ONCE so if you want to waste the little years you have to walk on your road on following or try to be a part of another human being just like you who doesnt have anything special except trying to walk the same road as you(WHAT AFC SPEND THEIR PRECIOUS TIME DOING) than you are really messing the ONLY chance you will ever get which is ENJOY LIFE. Women are great but at the end of the day we are all humans made out of flesh and bones. talking to "the most beautiful woman on this planet" is nothing special like i said its just flesh and bone on another human trying to walk on her road we call life. the reason why women fall for guys that "ignores" them or are not drooling over them is because these guys have a life on their own not a life dictated by society. they make the world revolves around them and not the other way around. its their road after all not society's. like some Japanese dude said on this forum
100 years from now, you, everybody you know, everything you did or thought about or thought about doing, or were to nervous to do to think about, or that you might imagine someday that you thought about doing will be dead and forgotten.

Have as much fun as possible do whatever you wanna do, shape, decorate make whatever you wanna make out of your road before you run out of time, IT IS A CHANCE YOU WILL NEVER EVER GET AGAIN. live to the fullest. being scared will never ever give you back the fun or the experienced you could have experienced by not doing what it prevented you from doing. Get as many women as you want even 10 at the same time if you wanna do it and leave scariness where it belongs, nowhere. If i made any mistake in my English i apologize i am a native french speaker. Now i want to hear what you guys have to say about my point of view
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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very good thoughts and ideas, makes me want to get off my ass right now and do something even though its 3:00 o'clock in the morning
 

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It's easy to forget this sometimes in the heat of the moment. This is a thought I have had a lot before slipping into old thought patterns, I appreciate you refreshing my psyche. In the spirit of one of my favorite posters, Brazilian Blues Boy, its time to go out and arise and keep on winning!
 

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iwanttofight said:
very good thoughts and ideas, makes me want to get off my ass right now and do something even though its 3:00 o'clock in the morning
Thats the purpose of this post do what you have to do
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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vlf445 said:
It's easy to forget this sometimes in the heat of the moment. This is a thought I have had a lot before slipping into old thought patterns, I appreciate you refreshing my psyche. In the spirit of one of my favorite posters, Brazilian Blues Boy, its time to go out and arise and keep on winning!
yeah it really is... sometimes i forget but it the idea comes right back up and i do the right thing for myself
 

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Thats existentialism in essence. I personally follow that philosophy and hedonism as well.
 

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This is a very good post. I rewrote it for you.

Life is a road and you only walk through it once. Everyday people decide on how they are going to walk on their road for another day. The time we get everyday cannot be bought or taken back. Your road is going to have to end one day or another and when we get to the end there is no way to turn back and try to catch all the little things we call "regrets”. Don’t let yourself have any. We only live ONCE so if you want to waste the few years that you have left following someone else on their road, then so be it. Trying to be a part of another human being’s path is accepting that you don’t have anything special about yourself (WHAT AFC SPEND THEIR PRECIOUS TIME DOING). If you do this, you are missing the ONLY chance you will ever get to ENJOY LIFE.

Women are great but at the end of the day we are all humans made out of flesh and bones. Talking to "the most beautiful woman on this planet" is nothing special. She’s just another human being trying to walk on her road. The reason why women fall for guys that "ignore" them or are not drooling over them is because these guys have a life on their own. These guys are not living their life dictated by society. They make the world revolve around them and not the other way around. It is their road and their life after all, not society's.

100 years from now, you, everybody you know, everything you did or thought about or thought about doing, were too nervous to do to think about, or that you might imagine someday that you thought about doing will be dead and forgotten.

Have as much fun as possible. Do whatever you want to do, shape, decorate make whatever you want to make out of your road before you run out of time, IT IS A CHANCE YOU WILL NEVER EVER GET AGAIN. Live to the fullest. Being scared will never ever give you back the fun or the experience you could have experienced by not doing what it prevented you from doing. Get as many women as you want even ten at the same time if you want to do it and leave fear where it belongs, nowhere.
 

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dankane said:
This is a very good post. I rewrote it for you.

Life is a road and you only walk through it once. Everyday people decide on how they are going to walk on their road for another day. The time we get everyday cannot be bought or taken back. Your road is going to have to end one day or another and when we get to the end there is no way to turn back and try to catch all the little things we call "regrets”. Don’t let yourself have any. We only live ONCE so if you want to waste the few years that you have left following someone else on their road, then so be it. Trying to be a part of another human being’s path is accepting that you don’t have anything special about yourself (WHAT AFC SPEND THEIR PRECIOUS TIME DOING). If you do this, you are missing the ONLY chance you will ever get to ENJOY LIFE.

Women are great but at the end of the day we are all humans made out of flesh and bones. Talking to "the most beautiful woman on this planet" is nothing special. She’s just another human being trying to walk on her road. The reason why women fall for guys that "ignore" them or are not drooling over them is because these guys have a life on their own. These guys are not living their life dictated by society. They make the world revolve around them and not the other way around. It is their road and their life after all, not society's.

100 years from now, you, everybody you know, everything you did or thought about or thought about doing, were too nervous to do to think about, or that you might imagine someday that you thought about doing will be dead and forgotten.

Have as much fun as possible. Do whatever you want to do, shape, decorate make whatever you want to make out of your road before you run out of time, IT IS A CHANCE YOU WILL NEVER EVER GET AGAIN. Live to the fullest. Being scared will never ever give you back the fun or the experience you could have experienced by not doing what it prevented you from doing. Get as many women as you want even ten at the same time if you want to do it and leave fear where it belongs, nowhere.
ah thanks its clearer
 

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PapiChulo said:
Thats existentialism in essence. I personally follow that philosophy and hedonism as well.
never heard of existentialism or hedonism ill look them up
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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