"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok, I'm going to make this quick instead of typing out the whole story. Here is a quick breakdown. This story is about a girl i have been goin out on dates with, and her 2 friends. It is one of the friend's birthday, who i am also friends with.

We had plans to go out for a girls birthday. We waited from 9:15 to 10:30 for them to call us. (They said that they would call us and we waited).

They didnt call, so we made other plans and started driving there.

10:45ish they call us and tell us to meet them. We turn around and go to their dorm room.

11:15 We go to the dorm, call them and tell them to let us in. We waited out there for about 5 minutes, no1 came to open the door.

We saw them through the window with a security guard. We call them and they tell us they were getting in trouble and they would call in a few minutes.

We waited 3 minutes, and then left because we felt we were being jerked around. *i was not driving*

7 minutes after we leave, they call my friend but he does not pick it up. I do not pick up ethier.

They are pissed/very upset and tell us on voicemails how they felt. Also had tough dudes talkin on the voicemails too.

I call the birthday girl and tell her that I was not driving, and i am sorry things happened as they did.

We drive back to our college. They come knocking on our doors about an hour and half later. I dont know how they found us. Girls are very pissed off and tell us to apologize to birthday girl.

We said we were sorry, and told them to come back to our room. The whole 2 hours they were there, they were upset and just yelled at us the whole time and said they spent alot of time and money preparing this party for us.

Now they are still upset with us - and said that they cant believe what we did.

*Also, they are talking about us going there tonight since we didnt last night.*

:confused: What are your thoughts about this situation? AND would you go back again tonight?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's over...no point going back.
 
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persiangino

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Wow. Those 'tough dudes' probably busted a nut on them girls after they left a message. And why would you let girls yell at you? Aren't you a man? sigh...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sounds like the guy driving got impatient and left. Unless there was a set time to call by, you really shouldn't have had expectations that they would call by a certain time. They told you they were being spoken to by security guards and couldn't let you in until they were finished. I can see why they were upset, but it certainly wasn't worth yelling over. Sounds more like a misunderstanding between the friends and a very inpatient driver. It happens...
 
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CORVETTE06 said:
We said we were sorry, and told them to come back to our room. The whole 2 hours they were there, they were upset and just yelled at us the whole time and said they spent alot of time and money preparing this party for us.

Now they are still upset with us - and said that they cant believe what we did.
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They are upset with you?? oh noooo its the end of the world, the wonderful friendship between men and a women shuttered because the man used logic and the woman used unreasonable emotion to justify her bad behaviour while the man (if I can still call him that) quievers in frustration and fear by the dominance of the woman.

Spare me this "friendship" bvllsh1t story. You wanted friends with females and this is the kind of drama you get. Just because the woman you are fvcking with is their friend does not mean that you should be too.
 
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