"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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amoka

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I suggest people must post at least 10 posts to existing threads before they can actually be illigible to start a new thread. This will be eliminating those troll posters like this, or this, or this
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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good idea!
 

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I understand the need but a guy can get into one flame war and have enough credits to start countless theads.
 

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Demon said:
Some forums require that the first two posts of a new user must be approved by a moderator.
That is even better....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yep wouldnt that be nice huh?
 

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I dunno. I think things are good as they are. Lets say there is some rule of implementation prior to creating a first thread. People can and often will change over time and all of a sudden think trolling is a good idea. It's an unpredictable thing that's bound to happen sooner or later landing us back at square one. The moderaters here enforce as necessary, locking threads, reviewing who should be banned etc etc. That's why we have moderators. The internet is a big vast thing that millions of people have acess to. Let the police men do their policing and the rest of us should focus on how we behave.
 
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