slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
So I get over to my friends place this past Friday. On the way we hit the liquor store, I grab me a 6pk of Fat Tire and they grab some after shock and other stuff that I did not plan on drinking. Got to his place and its him, his girl friend, his sister, her boyfriend, myself and their niece. I head out side with a beer and my guitar and amp and start messing around. My friend grills up some grub and the party gets started.
I should make it clear that I like my friends sister (they don't know that at least to the best of my knowlage) but she has been with an ass hole for a long time. An abusive SOB and she finally got her head on strait and kicked his ass to the curb and got a new man, who is nicer. Got to admit the dude is pretty cool. So we all where drinking, chatting, I am messing around with my guitar and my friend and his girlfriend where sitting by them selfs in their own little world, so its me chatting with his sister her boyfriend and the neice. Mostly joke telling and passing the bottle. Friendly stuff. Normaly this type of activity I would find an excuse to get out, but not tonight. I stayed. Why? Because I needed to and besides everyone was drinking and there was no ride home. I needed to stay because I don't hang out with my friends that often. I needed to socialize better. And dispite the fact that I liked his sister, I needed to feel more comfortable talking to women that I like. The Liquor helped with this. What also helped was the fact that I did not have to worry about. The sisters boyfriend was right there. So I was assured nothing was going to happen. I was free to chat and get comfortable and talk to the girl who I liked. It was good practice. But I also had to be careful since the boyfriend was there.
I treated my friends sister as that... an old friend. Jokes, chatting and a bit of teasing...
After a beer and a couple swigs of hard liquor and some playing, I went inside to use the can and since I was a bit thirsty, I grabbed some water and came back out. The sister was like "what the hell!? Water!? You best get another beer, I am on my third!" Or something to that tune. I shot back a quick sarcastic remark then held the glass of water over her head and act like I was going to dump it on her. She told me, "You better not, I will kick your ass" I smiled and said, "You will do what?" She said she was going to kick my ass. So I paused... then dropped a few drops of water on her.
It probably was a good thing she was too drunk to stand up and actualy do it...because I wanted her to get up and kick my ass...A good excuse to get into a wrestling match.
It would have been a big problem if she actualy did, since her boyfriend was there, or perhaps it would have been cool, since we have known each other for over 10 years. It would have been friendly wrestling.
She sat back down and we all drank and chatted and BSed some more. I went and grabbed another beer, one the boyfriend bought and drank it. He said, he did not mind sharing, and if you know me well enough you just sat your self up with a comment like that.. I said, "hmmm... thats interesting...." before he said, "my beer" I replied back, "just checking"
More BS and fun. Things wound down about 130 in the morning.
So, nothing really happen. I did go a bit wild, at least by my standards. I went out of my comfort zone (and perhaps stepped on a line I probably should not have). But before I would have never teased this woman like this. She has teased me a bit and all I could do was say, "Okay" or something stupid. I have chatted with his sister alone a few times, but have been too nervous to look at her while talking. There is one time when I was left alone with her in her room sitting on her bed where I was so friggin nervous I could not say much. I was standing up, she told me I could sit down and the only place to sit was her bed or floor.
So... I feel as if I am getting a little bit better. But I wonder if it was the liquor helping out. Probably.
I guess this was a BFD post, but eh... I posted anyway
I should make it clear that I like my friends sister (they don't know that at least to the best of my knowlage) but she has been with an ass hole for a long time. An abusive SOB and she finally got her head on strait and kicked his ass to the curb and got a new man, who is nicer. Got to admit the dude is pretty cool. So we all where drinking, chatting, I am messing around with my guitar and my friend and his girlfriend where sitting by them selfs in their own little world, so its me chatting with his sister her boyfriend and the neice. Mostly joke telling and passing the bottle. Friendly stuff. Normaly this type of activity I would find an excuse to get out, but not tonight. I stayed. Why? Because I needed to and besides everyone was drinking and there was no ride home. I needed to stay because I don't hang out with my friends that often. I needed to socialize better. And dispite the fact that I liked his sister, I needed to feel more comfortable talking to women that I like. The Liquor helped with this. What also helped was the fact that I did not have to worry about. The sisters boyfriend was right there. So I was assured nothing was going to happen. I was free to chat and get comfortable and talk to the girl who I liked. It was good practice. But I also had to be careful since the boyfriend was there.
I treated my friends sister as that... an old friend. Jokes, chatting and a bit of teasing...
After a beer and a couple swigs of hard liquor and some playing, I went inside to use the can and since I was a bit thirsty, I grabbed some water and came back out. The sister was like "what the hell!? Water!? You best get another beer, I am on my third!" Or something to that tune. I shot back a quick sarcastic remark then held the glass of water over her head and act like I was going to dump it on her. She told me, "You better not, I will kick your ass" I smiled and said, "You will do what?" She said she was going to kick my ass. So I paused... then dropped a few drops of water on her.
It probably was a good thing she was too drunk to stand up and actualy do it...because I wanted her to get up and kick my ass...A good excuse to get into a wrestling match.
It would have been a big problem if she actualy did, since her boyfriend was there, or perhaps it would have been cool, since we have known each other for over 10 years. It would have been friendly wrestling.
She sat back down and we all drank and chatted and BSed some more. I went and grabbed another beer, one the boyfriend bought and drank it. He said, he did not mind sharing, and if you know me well enough you just sat your self up with a comment like that.. I said, "hmmm... thats interesting...." before he said, "my beer" I replied back, "just checking"
More BS and fun. Things wound down about 130 in the morning.
So, nothing really happen. I did go a bit wild, at least by my standards. I went out of my comfort zone (and perhaps stepped on a line I probably should not have). But before I would have never teased this woman like this. She has teased me a bit and all I could do was say, "Okay" or something stupid. I have chatted with his sister alone a few times, but have been too nervous to look at her while talking. There is one time when I was left alone with her in her room sitting on her bed where I was so friggin nervous I could not say much. I was standing up, she told me I could sit down and the only place to sit was her bed or floor.
So... I feel as if I am getting a little bit better. But I wonder if it was the liquor helping out. Probably.
I guess this was a BFD post, but eh... I posted anyway