"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hi clooney ...

I believe with muslim girls, their conservatism is a mixture of religious and cultural issues. Depending on the girl, these two factors can get meshed together very hard.

If the conservatism is stemming from cultural issues, i believe that can be overcome more easily than if the conservatism was stemming from religious practices.

I want to ask you is she going out on dates with you, what's the extent of the relation (i mean do you touch each other?) ... If you are dating, and she's comfortable with a little touching (not heavy petting apparently, but something like touching her hand to get her attention, touching her back as you guide her into a doorway) then that can mean she's comfortable with the idea of a relation ..

Waiting for your answer as I believe I might be of help to you....

oh one more thing, does she wear a head cover ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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guyz, dont generalise so much!!! muslim women are just liek any other women, although they are more likely to be religious. Islam's stance on sex is just liek that of Christianity or Judaism. Muslim guyz being AFC is a ridiculous generalization. a non-religious muslim wud just b as non-afc as any christian or jew. and a religious christian or jew wud be just as much of an afc.

n yea, u shud note that Muslims arent allowed to marry any non-muslim. sex after marriage with a non-muslim comes in teh definition of pre/extramarital sex. so keep that in mind.
 

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lol, man, this thread is too damn old. This one ended long ago, just too hard cause she was looking to get married and to a muslim.
 
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Originally posted by CLOONEY
lol, man, this thread is too damn old. This one ended long ago, just too hard cause she was looking to get married and to a muslim.
I was going to respond to this thread but then I saw the date of it.

Clooney, you shouldn't be surprised by her wish - she is following the natural order of things!!

I think muslims take marriage more seriously than other groups and their religion is who they are and it is not just a 2 hour a week excursion.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol, didnt check the date before posting. :p
 
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