"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Musicians of Sosuave?

Marvin Gaye

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Are any of my fellow aspiring Don Juans music lovers? Does anybody play an instrument, want to learn an instrument here? I see it mentioned from time to time but no threads pop up.

Being fluent in music is a pretty badass, whether you get into it to fvck women or not. It's a feeling that's difficult to describe, other than feeling like a total badass....lol. I myself play guitar and piano, and I really want to learn jazz bass and violin. The Beatles are probably my biggest influence, most of their songs are fairly easy as well as being iconic and sounding great. Always fun to be at a friends house and find they have an acoustic instrument; boom you are suddenly the life of the party.

So any other music fans on Sosuave? R&B is my favorite genre, then Rock, then Spanish/Latin stuff.. (Southern Cali Rock etc)
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Julius_Seizeher

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Well I've played the guitar since I was a teenager, my cousins and I had a ragtag barn band throughout high school and the early post-hs years. We were a strong musical unit, but when my cousin got married two years ago, so much for that.

I have a very nice rendition of the 70's era Fender Strat, with the giant headstock and maple neck, but it hardly ever comes out of its case anymore. I also have a very nice Washburn steel string, solid spruce top and stunning inlays, and it hardly ever gets played anymore. A couple years ago I started getting into classical guitar, and it's all I play now.

Nylon strings have such a nice resonance in the bass and the highs are crystalline, it's a more pleasurable playing and listening experience than hammering on a steel string. And the classical pieces are tough, I mean it takes months to get a Moonlight Sonata or Ave Maria under your fingers. But it's so worth it once you do.
 

Huffman

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Played piano hard for over a decade... but difficult to use it with girls if you don't have a handy piano standing around ;)

But nice if you invite them over then you can play a little.
 

Nimm

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Been playing bass for two years... guitar before...
my newest additon is a Thunderbird...

Ps Julius... i would love to get my hands on that stratocaster ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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backbreaker

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been playing the piano since i was 10. been playing the violin off and on, mostly off lol, since i was 8.
 
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