"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Music which gives you a jolt of energy:

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Slipknot - People = ****

its all you need :rockon:
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"Sic" and "Before I forget" is also good for primal rage. Other good bands.

- All That Remains
- As Blood Runs Black
- As I lay Dying
- Atreyu
- Disturbed
- In Flames
- Killswitch Engage
- Machine Head
- Metallica
- POD
- Rage Against the Machine
- Paparouch
- Rammstein
- Slipknot
- Limp Bizkit
- Breaking Benjamin

They all have motivational songs with positive themes. Which I really like also heavy riffs to bang your head to. I like all types of music but METAL is by far pump you up the most.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yeah that's the shyt. Meat Beat Manifesto are one of my faves. :rockon:
 
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If you like techno reset you should check out some of Paul Oakenfold's stuff if you haven't already such as "Ready, Steady, Go" from the Collateral soundtrack.

Also "Limelight" by Kepi and Kat is a nice relaxing techno track that was in the videogame Perfect Dark Zero.

Kind of funny though.

I never pictured you as a fan of this sort of music.

Always pictured you loving stuff by Rise Against like I do lol.
 
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KontrollerX said:
Kind of funny though.

I never pictured you as a fan of this sort of music.

Always pictured you loving stuff by Rise Against like I do lol.
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See this is another way of getting insight into our SoSuave brothers!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lol. Music is my passion, I'm all over the place. Oakenfold is cool. I was actually thinking of getting checking the collateral movie again. People love to hate tom cruise but he was hardcore in that one.
 
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Lol. Music is my passion, I'm all over the place. Oakenfold is cool. I was actually thinking of getting checking the collateral movie again. People love to hate tom cruise but he was hardcore in that one.
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Collateral is all Michael Mann that's why it's so good. Shirley Temple could kick ass in a Michael Mann film.
 
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For an energy jolt, play piano and 'vocals': doors- light my fire, maggie mcgill, etc, stones - happy, loving cup, etc, beethoven, pink floyd- money etc
 
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Some songs I like to listen to get me pumped up before Hockey are
Bush - Machinehead, Chemicals between us
Evanessance - Bring me to life
Jimmy Eat World - Takes my pain away
Sugarcult - Los Angeles
Breaking Benjamin - Diary of Jane, Breathe

I also love Techno, some of my favorites...
Tiesto - Adagio for strings, Traffic, Love comes again, In the dark
Paul Oakenfold - Switch on
Cosmic Gate - Exploration of space
 
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Are any of you guys into the Crystal Method?

I have been looking for a guitar heavy song of theirs which IIRC was called "Midnight".
I like it so much, but I can't seem to find it anywhere.
It's got such a fantastic beat and GROOVE to it, with heavy crunchy guitars..I swear I love that type of sound.

Anybody know what I'm talking about?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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:nervous: :eek:

I think I need to be rebaptized after listening to this. I think I may have unintentionally sold my soul after this went through my ears.

I downloaded Blessings Upon The Throne of Tyranny and The heretic hammer. Downloading the entire discography now . . .

This is the hardest sh!t I've ever listened to!
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Hahaha! Dimmu is an incredible band. Very creative use of synths in their music to give it an extra dimension of eeriness/brutality. Although they do have some very beautiful songs as well in their earlier material. Songs I would suggest of theirs to really pump you up are:

The Chosen Legacy
Allehelgens Dod I Helveds Rike
Cataclysm Children
Maelstrom Mephisto
Indoctrination
Reptile
In Death's Embrace
Stormblast
 
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I used to listen to all of the Evil Empire CD from Rage Against the Machine before soccer games in middle school/high school.

And for some reason, rap music always fires me up to play basketball. Before bball games I'd usually listen to 2pac, Jay-z, Nas, probably others in there as well. That Brush Your Shoulders Off song always makes me want to play basketball for some reason.
 
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KarmaSutra said:
I've turned over every rock and looked in every nook and cranny and I can't find squat.

Still looking brother.
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Thanks,Karma. I haven't found anything either.
I hope I can find it.
 
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