"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Music videos to learn dance moves?

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sonick182

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What are some good music vids that have some dance moves that are nice but not too hard to imitate?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I heard that "Peaches and Cream" has some good dance moves in it...I forgot who it's by.
 

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Your probably better off actually getting a hiphop dance tape that teaches you moves instead of trying to emulate dancing from a video. But hey, it cant hurt right.
 

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If you're just learning how to dance, you're better off learning basic steps that one stupid cliched music video dance. Just watch how other people dance, and try to imitate it...it's all about finding the beat, and being comfortable.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Any of those 'cliche' dance videos, oir those instructional dance vids avail on K@zaa? What do i search for?
 

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If you really want to learn to dance, I am sure your local community college, or come local group offers lessons.

Take my advice, you want to learn salsa, and ballroom dancing, and THEN you can integrate your own style and modern moves WITH IT. This is a powerful combination and you will be among the best dancers anywhere you go.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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