"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Music to drive out AFC disease!!!

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I read somewhere that music inspire ppl,gives sweet memories and even programs how a person view things, so i figure why not use music to drive away those AFC disease that we have and instill the don juan principle in a fun way. : )

Here are some i find quite useful.

Geek in the pink by Jason Mraz
I'm a Flirt By R.Kelly
Animals By Nickle Back
Ass like that by Eminem

So far these are the ones i can think of. I will add more when i come across, if you have any pls add.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Offspring - Self Esteem
Brand New - Me Maradona and Elvis

download those immediately
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Some girls by the rolling stones
anything by t-rex

any james bond soundtrack
 

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download anything from one of the all time classic DJ, Mr Chairman of the board himself, Frank Sinatra.

that and,

Mims...This is why I'm hot
 

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I just thought of 2 more

I'm Bad by Michael Jackson
Rock Star By Nickle Back
 

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Next Contestant by Nickelback
Clothes off by Gym Class Heros
Swagger Like Us - Kanye, Jay Z, Lil Wayne, T.I
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Going the Distance - Cake
Pepper - Butthole Surfers

Not particularly related, but they rouse me...
 

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K.Os - Saturday Morning
Shop Boyz - Party Like A Rockstar
Muzik - Knoc Turnal
Basshunter - Now You're Gone
N.E.R.D - RockStar
Bullet For My Valentine - All these I hate
Bullet For My Valentine - Tears Don't Fall
Bullet For My Valentine - My fist, her scars
Story of the Year - Wake Up
Ne-Yo - Sexy Love
Chicane ft Bryan Adams - Don't Give it up
Five - We Will Rock You
Gym Class Heroes - Clothes Off
Nightcrawlers - Push the feeling on
 

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This is ridiculous, the only way to not be "frustrated" is to just listen to songs you like.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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daygameguy said:
K.Os - Saturday Morning
Shop Boyz - Party Like A Rockstar
Muzik - Knoc Turnal
Basshunter - Now You're Gone
N.E.R.D - RockStar
Bullet For My Valentine - All these I hate
Bullet For My Valentine - Tears Don't Fall
Bullet For My Valentine - My fist, her scars
Story of the Year - Wake Up
Ne-Yo - Sexy Love
Chicane ft Bryan Adams - Don't Give it up
Five - We Will Rock You
Gym Class Heroes - Clothes Off
Nightcrawlers - Push the feeling on


Hold on

Basshunter - Now You're Gone??? Good dance song but the lyrics are ultimate AFC load of bollox

"Now you're gone
I realize my love for you was strong
I miss you here, now you're gone
I keep waiting here by the phone
With the pictures hanging on the wall
Is this the way it's meant to be
Only dreaming that you're missing me
I'm waiting here at home
I go crazy, now you're gone
There's an empty place in my heart
without my Anna it will break apart
it wont heal it never fades away
I will think about you everyday "


Eminem Lose yourself is class, or Eminem Superman..That really sums things up for me.
 

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Mandiblard, this is not being frustrated. This method helps to remind you the DJ principles in a easy and fun way. it subconcious programming to your mind.

Why music? cause everyone enjoys and loves music.

Anyway if you dont believe in it, dont ruin it for others.
 

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HBK said:
Hold on

Basshunter - Now You're Gone??? Good dance song but the lyrics are ultimate AFC load of bollox

"Now you're gone
I realize my love for you was strong
I miss you here, now you're gone
I keep waiting here by the phone
With the pictures hanging on the wall
Is this the way it's meant to be
Only dreaming that you're missing me
I'm waiting here at home
I go crazy, now you're gone
There's an empty place in my heart
without my Anna it will break apart
it wont heal it never fades away
I will think about you everyday "


Eminem Lose yourself is class, or Eminem Superman..That really sums things up for me.
I never really paid attention to the lyrics until you pointed it out :p

Any trance/house music is good for pumping up state.
 

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cookie jar-gym class heroes ft. the dream
mambo no. 5-lou bega
suspicious character-the blood arm.

all POLAR opposite of afcism. :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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