Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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MUSIC FOR LOVING: Updated Regularly

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Whats it Gonna Be-Busta Rhymes ft. Janet Jackson

Take You Down-Chris Brown

Fatherfigure - George Michael

John Mayer - Your Body Is a Wonderland

What Chu Like - Da Brat ft. Tyrese

Falsetto-The Dream

Please Excuse my hands-Plies ft. Jamie Foxx & The Dream
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Wrong Way" by Sublime
 

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slickaz said:
230+ views and only 15 posts...cmon guys! do yall want me to do this or no?im out there hunting down tracks to get yall laid..lol...clearly the boys posting here are good posters too..lol
this is honestly some great stuff,
it doesnt just get the girl in the mood, also get you into the mood.

dont fret man, your work is helping others.

Congrat-u-fvcking-lations you have introduced me to into loving RnB :cheer:
 

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ALRIGHT!!!
I KNOW IVE BEEN gone awhile..
and ive been listenin to some old school s3xin music..

I am not responsible for babies made from listenin to this music..
But! on the unavoidable situation when you do!!! name your kids after you

LEAVE COMMENTS! and or REP

All the things your man won't do" by Joe
Moon Dream - Miles Davis
Sunshine- Alexander O'neal
Fire- Subway
Freak me- Silk
In the Mirror- Ne-Yo
Whoose Is It- Melvin Reily
There you Go- Johnny Gill
It seems like You're Ready- R.Kelly
Last Night- Az Yet
Whip Apeal- BabyFace
Let's Stay Together- Lyfe Jennings
What We Do Here- Brian Mcknight
Can U believe- Robin Thicke
R kelly - Your body's calling me
R kelly - Bump N Grind
R kelly - Sex weed
Omarion - O
Pretty Ricky - Grind with me
Celly Cell - It's going down tonite
Tyrese - Signs of love making
After 7 - Ready or not
Boys II Men - I'll make love to you
Colour Me Badd - I want to sex you up
Guy - Tease me tonite
H-Town - Knockin' the Boots
Jodeci - Freaking you
Keith Sweat - Make it last forever & Nobody
Marc Nelson - 15 Minutes
Toni Braxton - You're making me high
Usher - Bedtime
Maxwell's 'Til The Cops Come Knockin

ALL THE ABOVE HAVE BEEN FIELD TESTED and when played on the same playlist...they have worked WONDERS!!!! as in hours of the right kind of s3x..

good luck gentlemen..start your limewires!!
 

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Also

Joe - Why just be Friends
Marques Houston - Up in the club (slowjam mix)
Marques Houston - Naked (GUARANTEED S3X TRACK)
Marques Houston - S3x with you (GUARANTEED S3X TRACK)
Jagged Edge - He Cant Love you (When shes with someone else)
Avant - My First True Love

Enjoy Will post m ore soon..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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slickaz you pretty much got most of my RnB playlist nailed. btw why do you get notified about RnB tracks when they drop, do you work in the music industry or something?

Great thread, can't rep you again till I spread it around. A few of my favourites:

Avant - You Know What
Jamie Foxx ft. Ludacris - Unpredictable
Lloyd ft. Ashanti - Southside
 

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Jahidi:
Yeh i work as a DJ at the RnB and Hip Hop clubs here.
im part of a worldwide DJ group that has working relationships with record industries and artists.

The record industry will release the track to us first as soon as the first cut is produced.
The DJs then rate the track and production quality. and if necessary the artist will do a second version or rework the first.

Also the DJs are presented with a poll where we get the option to rate the track as in, If we will play this track at a club? a house party? or trash it?
depending on the vote the artist can decide what track from the album they will release first. for example, TI's Whatever you like from the new album Paper Chase was decided on by this group.

The DJ group is a worldwide movement and involves members into the thousands. However membership is difficult to attain as you need to get recommended by the club you mix at. they also contact your club to provide details about you etc.

anyway hope that helps. i got a whole bunch of new tracks that im listening to..something like 30 top pick tracks a day new that i pick out of 150+ that get listed..

ill post somemore later
 

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Thanks for the update bro :up:
whenever i play any of those songs, girls love what they hear. Or they comment on how i got a great taste in music, etc.

great to have some other stuff on my ipod apart from rap/electronica

check this one guys:

white lies (count mix) - paul van dyk

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vISV6u8AUAs
 

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yo son!....hahaha awesome to hear girls are showing interest thanks to the music here..ill keep updating this as and when i get the time...but glad its helping atleast one person..and i hope you tapped least one of those girls?! hahahaha...do your thing..
 

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heres a few of my head that i used last nyt to get some.

Ciara - Explode
Marques Houston - Sunset
Slim - So fly
Dream - Cringing
J Holiday - The way it was
Pretty ricky - 21 Days of 4 play
Nelly feat Usher - Long Night
Tank - I luv it
Pretty Ricky - Shonin
D'Angelo - I found my Smile again
Emmanual - I Will Do
Ryan LEslie - Dance Tonight
London - You should be loved
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't know how helpful a thread like this is. Music tastes are so individual.

What if the girl listens to indie rock? Then you go putting on Jodeci and LL Cool J and where does that get you?
 

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speakeasy said:
I don't know how helpful a thread like this is. Music tastes are so individual.

What if the girl listens to indie rock? Then you go putting on Jodeci and LL Cool J and where does that get you?
Yep, though for the most part women like this kind of music.

Personally i love EDM (trance, house, prog..etc.) but i got no problem getting jiggy to other types.

Though last time i got laid this was on the stereo...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0oqVuHuOEso

Go random MP3's on my Ipod!

If you really want a challenge though, try having sex to the rhythm of THIS

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NcQi5qU3BXU

and usually the song is a little faster than that!! :eek:
 

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http://fr.youtube.com/watch?v=5WCKRoJG5eM
The Zombies -Time Of The Season

I've had girls on the phone the next day asking what song this was. I don't make it easy for them either; last time I got her to describe when it played, what we were doing, etc. :)
 

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Heart Break Kid said:
http://fr.youtube.com/watch?v=5WCKRoJG5eM
The Zombies -Time Of The Season

I've had girls on the phone the next day asking what song this was. I don't make it easy for them either; last time I got her to describe when it played, what we were doing, etc. :)
Excellent song there. The Zombies were awesome. I need to pick up their box set.
 

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Someone needs to upload all these songs on a server like megaupload or rapidshare!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Was just listening to Sade's Love Deluxe today. That will never go out of style. Best fvck album ever created.
 

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sade makes some bad azz music!!..

for the other guy..
yeh you may listen to indie rock. or trance..but most of this music is for makin babies..
im posting what i know, i use and what others have asked for...i cant se trance as MUSIC FOR LOVING as the thread says..lol.
 

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sade makes some bad azz music!!..

for the other guy..
yeh you may listen to indie rock. or trance..but most of this music is for makin babies..
im posting what i know, i use and what others have asked for...i cant se trance as MUSIC FOR LOVING as the thread says..lol.
TBH neither do i, and i wholeheartedly agree that the master list we've got here of music is great for most girls.

But it all seems a little less... chaotic is really the word i'm looking for when you're hopped up on E and you're trying to keep up to a pulsating beat.

i rarely bother with music other than my personal preferences now anyway. Though i'm tempted to make a few 'loving' mix cds or mp3s of the mentioned songs :)
 

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- Neyo ft Jamie Foxx & Fabolous- She Got Her Own (Miss Independent Remix)
- R.Kelly - The Zoo
- R.Kelly - Feelin on your booty
- Anthony Hamilton - I'm Cool
- Jodeci - Freak you (old skool)
- Collie Budz - Mamacita
- Do or die - Get it Wet
- Do or die - Smoke my weed
- Do or die - Slide into my car
- Lyfe Jennings - Never Never Land
- Donnell Jones - shorty got her eyes on me
- Donell Jones - Do you wanna
- Donell Jones - Think about it
- Donell Jones - Spend the night
- Ray -j - One wish
- Ray-j - melody
- Ray-j - blue high heels
- Cruna - Higher
- Silk - Meeting in my bedroom
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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