"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MUSIC FOR LOVING: Updated Regularly

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MOD: Want to make this a sticky?

ok Gentlemen, please get your limewire on.
Heres a list of songs im going to start regularly updating.

Its going to contain a lot of RnB music, but ill also put other genres.
As long as they fall into the 4ss Tappin Genre.. :) ;)

I like a mix of Old School and Nu Skool music. Because if its too new, she doesnt know the words, and if its too many old songs...well you'll look like you're stuck in the 90s.

So Please Enjoy this list.
Check Back Everyday.
Please dont hesitate to add your own tracks if you know they work on the girls.

Give Rep to posters, and give us field reports ;)

Here goes:

Musiq Soulchild - Just Friends
Musiq Soulchild - My Girl
Musiq Soulchild - You and Me

John Mayer - Your Body is a Wonderland
John Mayer - Comfortable

Genuwine - Pony
Genuwine - Differences

Max Melvin - Whatever (Ambient Mix)

Jesse McCartney - Shes no you

Blu & Exile - First Things First

Yummy Feat Jadakiss - Come Get It

Plies Feat Trey Songz - Shawty

:cheer: Bobby Valentino - Slow Down <<WORKS EVERYTIME!!!>>
:cheer: Bobby Valentino - Never Lonely<<Works EVERYTIME!!!>>
Bobby Valentino - Tell Me

JHoliday - Bed:cheer:

Chris Brown - Young Love <<FOR ALL YOU YOUNG DJS ON HERE, NEVER FAILED ME>>
Chris Brown Feat KEri Hilson - SuperHuman <<WORKED EVERYTIME>>

Deep Side - Shook

LL COOL J - Hush
LL COOL J Feat Trey - Girl If I
LL COOL J Feat Dream - Baby:cheer:

Sunshine Anderson - Lunch & Dinner :cheer:

Fantasia - When I See You

Young Berg - Sexy Lady

Ashanti Feat LL Cool J - So Over You (Push Pull Track)

:cheer: <HAVE TO HAVE!!!>

Ciara - SuperNatural <<SURE FIRE, YOU WILL GET LAID!!!>>
Ciara - Promise <<YOU WILL GET LAID>>
Ciara - Promise Ring <<FOR YOUR NEW GIRLFRIEND>>
Ciara - Click Flash <<FOR THAT PLAYFUL FLIRTING>>

<<IF YOU DONT GET LAID WITH THE ABOVE, NEXT HER>>

John Legend Feat Andre 3000 - Green Light

Neyo - Trouble
Neyo - Nobody <<GRAB HER HAND AND DANCE..ITLL WORK LINE IT UP NEXT WITH CIARA CLICK FLASH THEN PROMISE RING, Dumb it down>>

Ryan LEslie Feat Cassia - Addiction




** DUE TO TIME CONSTRAINT TODAY! THATS ALL I CAN POST WILL POST MORE GOODNESS LATER**.
ILL HAVE TO Search my huge load of music to get all the top ones.
but perusing my itunes in the past 5 mins i got the above..so you can imagine how much how there is.

Enjoy!! Rep if it works
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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nice list, deffinatly gonna download some of the ones i dont have :up:
everyone needs to not forget the power of music, it sets the tone, the mood, and the atmosphere :up:
 
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Awesome list. I love it.

Check out "Fallin' in Love" by Tyrese or "No One Else Comes Close" by Joe too.
 
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Lil Wayne Ft. Babyface - Comfortable
Do Or Die feat. Twista - Do You

Couple more, will post when I go through my playlist.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Good thread dude, always fun to find new music.

Hardly worthy of being a sticky though, especially if it's going to be updated regularly anyways.

cheers
 
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We're gonna have to come up with some good organization strategy because this list should get BIG



I'm leavin the house now but when I get back I'll suggest some good 90s RnB also
 
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Snoop Dogg - Sexual Eruption

Dunno how the fu<k I forgot it. Gets girls in the mood everytime.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alright unfortunately im at work now so i cant give you specific names.
but look for anything from

Artist:
Tank - This dude has some kinda magical effect on their clothing.

Tyrese -

Usher - Seduction (Best Song For When You're Alone With Her)

Ill post more in about an hour
 
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HanyAndy - riiiiiiiiiight...
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Alex - Try looking for
Talvin Singh - Traveller or Jaan ( Both are very classical eastern sounds..but very very smooth)
Vassy - Loverman (chilled foreplay song)
Sandmoon - Unknown Lights
Sensi - Uprising (its a bit upbeat but...)
Sitar 25 - Zen Men (for that Tantric banging)
Everyday - Trinah (Chilled foreplay)
For What We Know - Trish Dew
Gadou - Smood

(try the above and let me know if you like..ill post more for you..):up:



MORE MUSIC
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Guys..Please keep this music to yourself..as i get notified of new RnB tracks as they drop and typically i shouldnt be telling or sharing..but coz its for a good cause (you gettin laid..) im happy to help..provided you keep these tracks exclusive for your use...cheers


Chris Brown - Diagnosed With Love
Chris Brown - Electric Guitar

Keri Hilson - Energy (Not Field TEsted Yet)

The Greatest - Michelle Williams ( Play when shes down/upset )

Mario - I Choose You
Mario - How Do I Breathe

Bobby Valentino - On The Edge (WORKS SUPERBLY)

Lloyd - Sex Education ( WORKS SUPERLY - GUARANTEEEEEEED!!!)

R.Kelly - Skin ( WORKS GUARANTEEEEEEEED - foreplay/kissiin)

AND YOU HAVE TO BUMP THIS TO YOUR GIRL COURTESY OF SLICKAZ.. TELL HER THIS ONES FROM ME...AND SHELL KNOW WHAT TO DO.. :)

USHER Feat NELLY - LONG NIGHT...
Seriously..tell her its from me..



NeYo - Independant (when you're alone sing it to her..itll boost her a lil)
NeYo - Perfect



More to Come..when you guys give me some LOVE!!!!! hahaha..enjoy lads..and tell your girls when ur done..that the last 2 hours of multiple orgasms??courtesy of SlickAZ..peace!:cool:
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Joe - I Wanna Know - Such a good song!

Lloyd and Lil Wayne - Girls Around The World, oh BTW: Lloyd always makes good love songs and such, i recommend him :D

Brian McKnight - Back At One

J Holiday - Suffocate/Be With Me/Betcha Never Had/Come Here/Without You/Back of My Lac - These are all GREAT songs trust me

Taio Cruz - Shes Like a Star/Come On Girl/I Can Be/Never Gonna Get Us/Fly Away/Moving On/I Cant Say Go/ So Cold - Ever heard of this guy Taio Cruz? Hes from the UK and hes AMAZING, I cant stress this enough, his music is fantastic give a few of his songs a shot your going to love them guarenteed
 
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230+ views and only 15 posts...cmon guys! do yall want me to do this or no?im out there hunting down tracks to get yall laid..lol...clearly the boys posting here are good posters too..lol
 
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230+ views and only 15 posts...cmon guys! do yall want me to do this or no?im out there hunting down tracks to get yall laid..lol...clearly the boys posting here are good posters too..lol
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Hey keep doing it, just because they arnt posting doesnt mean they arnt downloading! BTW: I fell in love with Teachme by Musiq Soulchild
 
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yo yo mr.handy..ok..just coz you say so bru..ill keep it goin..

oh yeh..Teach Me is a great track, but it got to much air time on radio..took the soul out of that song..if you notice i like exclusivity..because i think playing exclusive songs that she hasnt heard ANYWHERE else will have a much better effect..like wow this is so sensual..otherwise shes too busy trying to sing the track etc..lol

will post more soon
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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