"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Music festival problems..

PokerJohn94

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Hey guys. I just had a convo with two girls, and everything did seem to go awesome. But suddenly one says, that she wants to go to a bath room. They were gone 10 mins when I took off. Do you also have these situations when the girls are seeming ti enjoy your convresation, and suddenly just dich you. It is really a bad feeling. What are the common reasons why would they do that. what could be theyr angle. Why would they dich me?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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G_Govan

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They avoid confrontation by simply disappearing or stop communicating when they're no longer interested (if they ever were).

It's the same reason a chick will give you a phone number and never answer your calls.

Don't take it personally and just realize it's the way some women function.
 

Peña

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Sounds like they really were not that interested and looked for any excuse to split. Maybe the next girl you talk to will give you her number. Keep at it man and not getting discouraged over a couple of random chicks.
 
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