"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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anyone of you ever been called a meat head? for some reason some women think im dumb or a sensless jerk, fjust because im muscular they are treating me diffrerent than when i was skinny. a girl once told my female friend that im such a meat head look at his muscles he is so vain. do anyone of you guys experience this. infact they think all big guys are meat headed thugs.
i got a friend who told me a girl said she wouldnt date him because he got muscles.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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and then you've got girls who are extremely attracted to muscles... different strokes...
 

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Haha, bs. I know for a fact, women first criticize the buff guys, and say, "oh, what they don't know is that we women don't like them that big". They are intimidated, subconciously even maybe. But if those guys know their abc's in game, women turn into some 10 year old girls that do anything those guys tell them to do.

It's like, you know that the odds of a huge muscular guy knowing how to fight are low, but, one big guy comes up to you and tells you to shut up.. you are more likely to shut up or consider doing it, than if some ordinary dude comes up to you and says that.
 
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