"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Muscles in your hands

shaunuk

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So my favourite vertical pulling exercise is underhand lat pulldowns, i.e. pulldowns with a chinup grip.

Are these pulldown machines made for tall people btw? I'm pulling more than my bodyweight so I have to put weights in my pockets and then kinda dangle off the bar until I fall into a sitting position, lol :)

But anyways, I have to grip quite hard on these, and after a set my hands almost feel like they're cramping up a bit. The next day I get DOMs in my hands as well as the expected muscles. The DOMs is in the "muscle" below my little finger.

Basically the questions are, am I actually working the muscles in my hands, or is there another explanation for this?

Also, depending on the answer above, is it possible that my hands could get a bit bigger? :D

Strange topic, I know, I've just never seen anything about it...

cheers.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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kickureface

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hand muscles make your hands look stubbier unless you change your finger length.
pulldown machines? you put weight in your pockets? don't you sit down on those 0.0?
 

shaunuk

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well in order to sit down I have to grab the bar pull the pully far enough down so that I can get my knees under the bar things...So I have to make myself heavier because the weight I'm doing is more than my bodyweight. So I gotta put weights in my pockets, haha :)
 
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