"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Muscles in your hands

shaunuk

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So my favourite vertical pulling exercise is underhand lat pulldowns, i.e. pulldowns with a chinup grip.

Are these pulldown machines made for tall people btw? I'm pulling more than my bodyweight so I have to put weights in my pockets and then kinda dangle off the bar until I fall into a sitting position, lol :)

But anyways, I have to grip quite hard on these, and after a set my hands almost feel like they're cramping up a bit. The next day I get DOMs in my hands as well as the expected muscles. The DOMs is in the "muscle" below my little finger.

Basically the questions are, am I actually working the muscles in my hands, or is there another explanation for this?

Also, depending on the answer above, is it possible that my hands could get a bit bigger? :D

Strange topic, I know, I've just never seen anything about it...

cheers.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kickureface

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hand muscles make your hands look stubbier unless you change your finger length.
pulldown machines? you put weight in your pockets? don't you sit down on those 0.0?
 

shaunuk

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well in order to sit down I have to grab the bar pull the pully far enough down so that I can get my knees under the bar things...So I have to make myself heavier because the weight I'm doing is more than my bodyweight. So I gotta put weights in my pockets, haha :)
 
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