Muscleman's Journal - Becoming Elite

[muscleman]

What's up everyone. I'm Muscleman and I'm here to become a master DJ, in all aspects of life. I have many goals that I'm working towards and girls are a side quest, but what a side quest they are! At the time of posting I've slept with 15 girls. It should have been 100+. I did the whole serial monogamy thing for a few years and I'm done with it, hopefully for a long time. Being single kicks ass! My relationships lasted from 2 weeks to 1.5 years and they were all good learning experiences, though a few were major wastes of time.

I've had a couple journals here before but they mainly focused on actual fvck closes, which turned out to be sporadic. Although my goal at this point (and hopefully for years to come) is to casually date and get those plates spinning, I want to work on the intricacies of the Game and figure out all the little things I'm doing right, wrong, efficiently, and not so much. Expect lots of field reports!

I hope you contribute and lend your experience as you read this - I'll take all the wisdom I can get :woo:

 

[muscleman]

FR:

I went on a date last evening with a girl I met at a bar about 2 weeks back. I chatted her up for about 5 minutes before going to find my friend and she had pretty high IL, super easy # close. She texted me a few times over the next few days. I went to LA for a week so we couldn't hang out until last night, but she was definitely interested. We grabbed a drink at a nearby bar and just talked/hung out for about an hour. I laid the kino on a little thick and she clearly let me know about it several times, but near the end she was definitely warming up to it.

She wasn't going to drop her panties that night, but it may be the whole "higher value" thing. She's a weather girl, and a pretty hot one at that I'm definitely not phased by non-reception of kino which happens occasionally, I just back off and then slowly work my way back in. Make the ho say no! Anyway, I realized no booty call that night so we went our ways, though we did have a nice makeout session by her car and she invited me to hang out with her friends for her birthday celebration this Friday. Me and my wing (and maybe another one of my buddies) will definitely hit it up. Hopefully I'll get some then :box: It's been a while since I've done the whole more-than-1-date-lay thing, so I need to play it cool with this chick. Any suggestions? At this point I'm not really thinking much about it, I'll get info about the celebration on Thursday, won't talk to her til then, and just see her on Friday (unless she gets a hold of me before).

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In other news, there were some girls from about 2 weeks back I met at various bars and # closed. I mentioned to them I was going to LA for a week and would be in touch when I got back. I sent a text to all 5 of them and didn't hear anything back. They were "hey! I'm back from LA, let's hang out when are you free?" This was on Sunday. Maybe the IL dropped. One of them I went on a date with prior to leaving and almost got her back to my place, when she copped out to go hang out with her friend, but wanted to chill later. I was disappointed when she said this and she definitely picked up on it, so I think me getting upset (in my voice tone) over it may have killed it.

Anyway, I'm going to do a round of calls tonight around 9pm and see which of them (if any) answer or call back. No voicemails. I give things 2 shots. If nothing, I'll delete them off my phone and add them to my spreadsheet in case I do get a call/text from some number without a name.

There is another girl I "gamed" online who may be down to hang out soon, but those are my options so far. I'm looking forward to getting another round of # closes this weekend when we go sarging, maybe even some fun!

If you have feedback, I definitely welcome it

 

[Solomon]

Props For taking action

I hope this time you stick with it, you doing good, and you one of the few posters who I check for, in terms of your JOurnal so far keep doing what you doing. I'm gonna be watching this, and dropping my opinons if you don't mind no and then

Good luck

Sarge on

 

[muscleman]

Thanks man. FR report for today.

Called all 5 girls, got answering machines. No messages, waiting til the weekend before deleting numbers (only leaving references in spreadsheet). No more contact from me.

I number closed a girl at my gym today I talked to a couple times before. She mentioned she's moving and I told her to check out my condo complex and we kinda left it at that. Today I was talking to one of my friends in-between sets when she comes up. I say hi, introduce them to each other, we all talk for a couple minutes, then he goes off and she mentions to me "I'm interested in checking out that condo". Pimp. I tease her about some sh!t going on with her right now and she's eating it up. Anyway, got the #, we'll see where that goes. I opened another girl at the gym but she didn't' seem too interested. I missed a couple opportunities. One girl was giving me serious eye contact ... I have no idea why I didn't go for it, too pvssy I guess for no reason and partially content with a single number close. I'm very serious about my lifting, but I like to have some fun while I'm resting between sets :woo:

Gonna hit up a couple dudes I met a couple weeks back to expand my friend/social circle.

I'm glad I got another # close and my confidence is going up daily, but I'm still missing opportunities. I just need to go for it. I figure you never ask, you'll never find out, so I'm gonna ask every hottie I see!