"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

muscle tricks

L

Lt dan

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 28, 2003
Messages
688
Reaction score
0
this might be dumb. i dont care. ok if you know any little tricks you can do with your muscles tell me. confused? ill explain. for one you can grab your vicep with your arm sticking straight out, squeeze your arm with those fingers as hard as you an. fles , take you havnd off and then do the bicep fles thing. if you do it fright, which i ckinda suck at it fright now. your muscle holds the shape of your fingers for a while. kinda gross. but i think its cool
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

M

Maurizio

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 1, 2002
Messages
161
Reaction score
1
Location
Outside Boston
I tried that out. IT WORKS! Woah...

Mine: I have EXTREMELY low fat in my arms and legs, so when I flex my arms, the tendons at my elbow pop out quite considerably. I can then take the opposite hand and wrap my fingers around the tendons that protrude. When I pull on the tendons then, my arm automatically extends (without my having to send brain signals to the nerves). I personally don't know anyone else who can do that.

- Maurizio
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top