"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Muscle Definition

Dirtheart

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There is plenty of good advice on cutting and bulking up, but what I want to know is how you get the muscle to look defined and ripped, and how do you turn a solid stomach into a six pack?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MrFitness880

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to get a ripped defined anything you need to diet down to a low enough body fat and minimize water retention.

is there something more specific you were looking for?
 

DJBen

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Muscle definition doesnt exist in the ways most people think it does. Your muscles look how they look, the only way to "define" them is to drop bodyfat.

It's basically cutting up my friend. Drop the body fat, and the true shape of the muscle is much easier to see. That makes your entire body look either toned, ripped, whatever. It's all to do with the old BF%
 

TheRisingSon

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OK, so you know about bulking and cutting. Now, you want to hear about definition. Here is the secret (well kept, until now):

1) Bulk -- you need to gain muscle.

2) Cut -- you need to get rid of the fat so the muscle is visible.

Of course, this all depends on how you are currently built. You may want to skip step 1.

I Have Risen
 
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