"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Muscle Building - Going up to or beyond failure?

Duracell_Bunny

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Currently on a clean bulk, most workouts I'd aim for 6-8, or 8-12 reps depending on the exercise.

Within those reps, whats the best way to train? Say failing at the 5th or 6th rep, with a few seconds break and then continue up to 8? Or should I be failing on 8?

If I've got a session booked in with my trainer, sometimes this person gets me to lift weights in excessive amounts, at times to the point I'm doing bursts of 3/4 reps.

Is this a sure way for muscle building or am I lacking in endurence?

I'm getting to the point were I'm no longer getting much DOMS or feeling pumped during a workout with the above method. Is it time to change?

I'm not following an exact rotating plan. Just various exercises and alternating each workout between upper and lower body 3 times a week without repeating the same exercise in the same 7 days, with about 15mins of intense cardio on the days in between (boxing on punch bag or padwork day after leg workout, running after upper body workout, + 1 rest day).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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j0n24

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1-5 reps= strength
6-12= hypertrophy/look bigger
12-18= endurance

Find out what you want then go with the rep range you think you want..just keep adding weight to the bar and you should be ok.
 
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