"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Multivitamin = Lucid Dreaming ???

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So around a week ago or so I took my multi before bed(Usually take it in the mornings) And I had the most intense, realistic dream EVER. I didn't correlate the dream with my multi at the time but it happened again...And again and again. Only one day I didn't have one(Though I didn't remember anything at all of that dream)

I had a lucid dream about studying for my physics exam, I was reading this certain page and I told myself in the dream to remember the pg number so I could see if it was the sam
e as my actual book... But of course I couldn't... My memory of that page number was so foggy. The other LD's were just so strange and one specifically was a bit disturbing heh :S

It could be a huge coincidence but as I'm typing this I just took my multi and heading to bed, will report back in the morning.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That's from Zinc and Magnesium. Magnesium relaxes the muscles, zinc increases testosterone.

Try ZMA.
 

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I just bought some ZMA actually. And yeah these dreams were just coincidental... Fail! Haha
 

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Sorry. I'm saying that my thread was a failure. Since the dreams were simply coincidental.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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They're not coincidental. High testosterone levels will do that. Many people who use ZMA (myself included) have a similar experience of very rich and vivid dreams. I haven't heard about it inducing lucid dreams though.
 

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Disruptive dreams...lucid dreaming, night terrors, etc...the best way I've seen to get them is to disrupt your sleep cycle. I get them inadvertently, for example, when I get woken up in the middle of the night, act like I'm getting up for the day, then go back to bed...or when I try to go to bed, actually lay down like I'm sleeping, but I'm not tired enough and I get up and go do something for another hour or two.
 
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