Multiple plate spinning VS focusing on one woman

[lizardking82]

I have tried both, I am now spinning 4 plates and truth be told, no matter how good you are at time management, there is no woman gonna stick around if you don't communicate with her 2-3 times during the day and at one point or another, it becomes tiring.

Have you guys ever chosen to focus on 1 woman after the red pill? Or you don't do that cause you maybe feel it makes your DJ skills rusty? Is it maybe better to focus on one woman and dedicate time to other things in your personal life or maybe some of you can do that even by having multiple plates?

 

[Murk]

You don't have to talk to them 2/3 times - tell them you're busy - go AWOL for a day or two.

Yes it's hard, I'm struggling now, my biggest issue is keeping costs down, women are so easy to come by that I don't really care about them any more. I've become a monster. I've started an excel spreadsheet.

 

[guru1000]

You don't need to communicate with women every day. Try not responding every now and then, and then reaching out to them when YOU want to see them. You can have a healthy rotation of women vying for your time and attention at max 2-3 days of communication per week, and often even less. Also, this silence and distance between intermittent communications serve to increase their attraction and appreciation toward you, forging them into troopers on standby, waiting at your beck and call.

Do not fear insulting them by creating distance, just be respectful: if their IL is sufficient, they will be always be responsive, unless they are not mentally healthy, and to these types, you want to stay away from irrespectively.

You can have a successful practice/business, social life with friends and family, time for hobbies, gym, rest--and still maintain a harem of women by exercising your time properly.

 

[upcoming_DJ]

Hey @lizardking82 - we've had several exchanges and I want to thank you very much for your advices.

As for your question - as someone who is practicing and have orbiters but not really "plates" - I've got 1 girl I'm seeing at the moment.

What I have experienced is this - I would do hours and most of the time days not answering my current girl I have been seeing for 3 months. If I look back - her attraction level has grown over time - it's not growing exponentially RIGHT NOW BUT, it hasn't dropped either.

She has told me quite a number of times that she does not appreciate me answering her. In fact, I went to the city where she works yesterday for a meeting of mine and ended up inviting her out to lunch at the very last moment. She text me about 4 times yesterday evening. One of the last texts were "was nice seeing you today babe! I missed you so much!" then couple of hours later she messaged ": | missed you too my darling! Good night! (kiss emoji) followed up by "Maybe if I answer myself" with a rolling eyes emoji.

However, I also pepper in times when I would text with her for over an hour - sometimes non stop, sometimes with a couple minutes in between.

from all I've read and I've been experiencing - it gets them hooked! it's like someone on cocane - you take away the cocaine and they get anxious, think about that high - think about you, all the time her feelings are growing as her thoughts are consumed with you. And then FINALLY you communicate back ! BAM ... she gets that rush again.

I have however, experienced days when she SEEMED MAD. Like she takes her time to answer or leaves me on seen, or answers coldly. All I do is back away. I wait until she texts or calls and she always does! lovingly too.

"women are more attracted to men who's feelings are unclear" .....

 

[Roober]

There is some amount of communication that needs to take place for a woman to stick around. That will vary based on the standards you set from the beginning of the relationship.

If you continue to see this woman long term, 3+ months, there will come a time where she will want more. You either let the plate fall, or move towards an LTR. Whatever the case, I would say dont ever be 100% responsive.

Best thing I have ever done is turn off all phone notifications. The only sound that comes out of my phone is my alarm clock. I check my phone every couple hours, sometimes more frequently. You would be amazed at the amount of increased time and productivity you gain when you remove the electronic leash.

 

[Macaframalama]

Quality of time spent>Quantity of time spent, but they do all need some amount of maintenance. I just figure out which ones are worth the investment and least needy. I can't do the back and forth every day. I have to have a chance to miss someone and vice versa. Seek women, that have as much going on as you do. It's no coincidence, that they usually end up being higher quality women as well.

 

[Red Legg]

I have tried both, I am now spinning 4 plates and truth be told, no matter how good you are at time management, there is no woman gonna stick around if you don't communicate with her 2-3 times during the day and at one point or another, it becomes tiring.

Have you guys ever chosen to focus on 1 woman after the red pill? Or you don't do that cause you maybe feel it makes your DJ skills rusty? Is it maybe better to focus on one woman and dedicate time to other things in your personal life or maybe some of you can do that even by having multiple plates?

You are dead wrong about the 2-3 times a day communication bit,I have had damn good women stick around for years and years texting 2 times a month and no phone calls at all...your experience is showing and it's not much.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I have tried both, I am now spinning 4 plates and truth be told, no matter how good you are at time management, there is no woman gonna stick around if you don't communicate with her 2-3 times during the day and at one point or another, it becomes tiring.

Have you guys ever chosen to focus on 1 woman after the red pill? Or you don't do that cause you maybe feel it makes your DJ skills rusty? Is it maybe better to focus on one woman and dedicate time to other things in your personal life or maybe some of you can do that even by having multiple plates?

No. #nextset

New girls turning 18/19/20/21 everyday.

I know hogs who have hundreds of matched seeking attention.

Smash or next set. No exceptions.

If you go full retard, plates drop off but, women sing a diff tune as they near thirty #gross!

The exception being those *** dumpsters who aren't oriented right.

It takes secs to DM a plate. I'm natty aloof nonchalant, and deezed. Wearing lulu's doesn't equate to stunner. It's girl power on Gear. Retard stack.

Buffalo's cheered off the cliff. #goodRiddance!


Think Arnold T2.

You, the man are what stands from Buffalo Being cheered off the cliff. There's no comeback from. Cratered SMV.

Come with or next.

 

[lizardking82]

You are dead wrong about the 2-3 times a day communication bit,I have had damn good women stick around for years and years texting 2 times a month and no phone calls at all...your experience is showing and it's not much.

I have 2-3 women/girls like that, too. Remember I am in Albania, things are not as open here as they are in the States.

 

[skinnyguy]

Most women want to spin plates and don’t want to text every day.

I meet very few women who want a relationship. They have their own money and own career. They are banging multiple Chads off tinder.

The way you maintain your frame is to not text that much. I leaned this the hard way. Even if you think your girl enjoys you texting her all the time, eventually she will lose interest.

 

[lizardking82]

Yes I have experienced otherwise but mostly with older women and much lower smv women. When you are dating women on your level there isn't going to be be slavish devotion when she can replace you in five seconds.

@Red Legg this is what I mean.

I don;t know what you call "good" woman, but if you are dealing mostly with girls in their twenties, like I am, it is going to be hard and close to impossible to enslave someone who has so many options. If you deal with women in their thirties or average looking women, sure, you can have them on demand.

 

[Trump]

Is it maybe better to focus on one woman and dedicate time to other things in your personal life or maybe some of you can do that even by having multiple plates?

Unless you want to get married and have a family, why would you focus on one women? Unless you are deeply madly in love with her.

Put it this way. Let’s say you focus on one woman who are so so in love with. After 5 years, she decides she is not in love with you anymore and moves on to the next guy. You are right back where you started, except you could have spent that time spinning plates instead of focusing on that one woman.

So if you Love her, focus all you want, but don’t be angry that you wasted your time not spinning plates when she dumps you for another guy.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Unless you want to get married and have a family, why would you focus on one women? Unless you are deeply madly in love with her.

Put it this way. Let’s say you focus on one woman who are so so in love with. After 5 years, she decides she is not in love with you anymore and moves on to the next guy. You are right back where you started, except you could have spent that time spinning plates instead of focusing on that one woman.

So if you Love her, focus all you want, but don’t be angry that you wasted your time not spinning plates when she dumps you for another guy.

Having a plate or two that you "jumped off" on very so often would've also magically kept her attracted . It keeps you from being needy and killing spark .