"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Multiple orgasms?

Jariel

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For the more sexually adept among you, what exactly is a multiple orgasm?

I was in the middle of foreplay with my girlfriend last night, when she reached orgasm. I stopped touching her and rolled over while she calmed down. Then all of a sudden she started having another orgasm and began screaming and gripping my hand tightly. This went on for about 3 minutes, then she started shaking uncontrollably and buried her face in the pillow, and continued screaming for another 5 minutes. I admit I started to get a bit scared, as the way she was shaking made me think she was having a seizure!

Sometimes when we have sex, she can reach orgasm every 3-5 minutes and have several during one session. I just assumed this was what multiple orgasms were, but what happened last night was something else. I've never know this happen before and neither had she. She told me after that she just kept having orgasms one after another. Even though I'd stopped touching her she totally lost control, and it took her ages just to calm down and get her breath back.

Just wondering if any of you have had similar experiences and if this is what is meant by multiple orgasm? How long do they usually last once they get started?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Anomalous

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She probably got these uncontrolable orgams, because like you said you rolled over and didn't touch her. There was so much anticipation for her to feel you inside her that she came!!

Nice work! She WON'T ever leave you now.
 

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some women can do that, some can not do that. some can do it sometimes.

depends on the person really.
 

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Ahhh the joys of wikipedia.

Human female orgasm
In a human female orgasm, orgasm is preceded by moistening of the vaginal walls, and an enlargement of the ****oris due to increased blood flow trapped in the ****oris's spongy tissue. Some women exhibit a sex flush; a reddening of the skin over much of the body due to increased blood flow to the skin. As a woman comes closer to having an orgasm, the ****oris moves inward under the ****oral hood, and the labia minora (minor lips) become darker. As orgasm becomes imminent, the vagina decreases in size by about 30% and also becomes congested from engorged soft tissue. The uterus then experiences muscular contractions. A woman experiences full orgasm when her uterus, vagina and pelvic muscles undergo a series of rhythmic contractions. The majority of women consider these contractions to be very pleasurable.

After the orgasm is over, the ****oris re-emerges from under the ****oral hood, and returns to its normal size in less than 10 minutes. Unlike men, women either do not have a refractory period or have a very short one and thus can experience a second orgasm soon after the first; some women can even follow this with additional consecutive orgasms, up to eight have been reported amongst some people; this is known as having multiple orgasms. After the initial orgasm, subsequent climaxes may be stronger or more pleasurable as the stimulation accumulates. Research shows that about 13% of women experience multiple orgasms; a larger number may be able to experience this with the proper stimulation (such as a vibrator) and frame of mind. However, some women's ****orises are very sensitive after orgasm, making additional stimulation initially painful. It is possible to engage in deep, rapid breaths while continuing stimulation and making a conscious intention to release the pain and tension. Doing this can allow for the intense stimulation to be interpreted not as painful but as intensely pleasurable. This technique is described by Betty Dodson in her book, "Sex For One".
hope this helps dude.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You da man!

Hmmm, that anticipation thingy...me must try lol.
 

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Thanks for the replies. It seems it was a multiple orgasm then, so I'll just share a few tips on how I achieved this for those who are interested...

Basically all I did was brush my fingertips extremely lightly over her body, starting with her neck and working my way down, spending a few minutes on each area. When I got down to her pvssy, I kept drawing my fingers closer, then moving them away and down her inner thighs. It's all about teasing her and building the anticipation. Then I lightly brushed my fingers over her cl!toris, paused, then did it again, gradually increasing the attention I paid to it and then the pressure and speed. I never inserted my fingers and I kept my touch so light I was barely touching her. Once she started to orgasm, I stopped touching her completely and that was it!

Another factor that may have triggered this is that I was lying at her side gazing silently into her eyes the entire time. She has told me before that she finds eye contact during sex extremely arousing (which is something she's never done with anyone before apparently).

And most importantly, have patience!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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women often have multiple orgasms. they are genetically programmed for it. we have only 1 shot to make the goal. :)
 

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what about multiple orgasm for us(males) folks.. it has techs doesn't it?
or should i say "dry orgasm"??
 
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