"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Multiple Girls ?

JSH

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What do you think of making out with multiple girls in one night. This is a situation that I have been in a lot. Now, I would hate to make out with a girl that had just kissed another guy, albeit a girl I got off with had just kissed three girls. So i have not, especially since it might hurt them.

Would You?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oakraiderz2

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Glad to see youre so sensetive. But to answer youre question, yes, yes i would without hesitation.
 

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Good, im happy. I just wanted some support because I think it would be funny.
 

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I would make out with as many girls as I could. I used to have morals and stuff, but I recently realized, that this is my last summer before I go off to college, and if girls think I'm an ******* for hooking up with tons of different ones and having one night stands, so be it, because the men will remember me as a legend.
 

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Yeah, I would too.


Quick question about kissing, but unrelated to this topic:

Anyone know if it's possible to get an STD from kissing a girl with an STD in her mouth? Or does it have to be genital contact for you to contract it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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