Multiple Girls in same social Circle

[gravityeyelids]

Ok so my good buddy has been sleeping with this cool girl, we'll call her Alex. Me and her get along well, and she has been setting me up with her friends, many of whom are cute.

First night we partied with them, i was trying to set her up with my friend (they hadnt slept together yet), and since i hooked her up with him shes like "i'll set you up, who do you want" haha. i end up making out with this Jes chick. She was alright, probably not going to follow up with her. She was a friend of Alex and her roommate's.

St. Patty's day a few weeks later, she's like "ill hook you up homeboy" and goes and talks to her blonde friend for literally 7 seconds and comes back and says "you're good". I go up to the blonde girl and ask her to play beer pong. We're playing and i just start making out with her and keep making out with her periodically for the next hour or whatever. try to pull her back to my place, but no dice.

This past weekend we go to a party with alex and her roommates. Later in the night, one of the girls we came with, Tiff, is looking pretty good and i'm talking to alex, blah blah. After a while i go up to tiff and talk to her for like 2 minutes and just start making out with her hardcore. Everyone is trashed, and tiff ends up bouncing to another party...

my friend mentions how i told him that alex is an excellent wingwoman. She laughs and says how she's running out of friends to hook me up with because i keep making out with them. Haha my friend says "well maybe if your friends would put out he wouldnt have to". She comments how i'm very...aggressive and confident. This alex chick is kinda cool. She's kind of...easy so we were talking and she notes how i'm always on the prowl and shes like "no its cool, i get it. i feel like we'd get along" my buddy was sitting right there, i'm just friends with the alex girl so no worries.

My question is...how should i play this? I'm an attractive guy and it's easy for me to make out with these girls just on a whim. I mean everyone is drunk and this is college, so part of me is like...it's casual, its just making out, i havent gone any further with these girls. They don't seems to give a sh!t...girls are suprisingly cool about multiple friends making out with the same guy. It might be different if i were sleeping with one of them. Should i slow my roll? I mean honestly part of me keeps making out with all of them because it's kind of funny. I'm kind of a sick bastard. I would like to lock down one of them. Tiff was into me so i'll probably go for her the next time we hang. I'm not gonna keep making out with all the girls in their social circle...i just wanna close one. advice?

 

[Mike32ct]

Sometimes too much making out can make it harder to pull. It can trigger ASD AND make the girl look way to easy in front of her friends.

Maybe shorten the makeout sessions a bit and leave her wanting more. Make out briefly for a few seconds and pull away to tease her. (Maybe twice.). Then continue dancing/grinding or talking (with kino) or whatever and THEN invite her to leave with you. The unspoken message is,"I want to do more with you but this isn't the place."

 

[gravityeyelids]

im not talking so much about how to close...i'm saying how do i handle this making out with and gaming multiple girls in the same social circle? tone it down or not give a fvck and just do what i want. I have a reputation amongst them of being a player and being completely fearless when it comes to girls

 

[Sofomore]

Not really sure what you're asking here, just choose one and go for it. Not really that complicated. If you want all the girls to yourself you should learn how to close properly.

Having a reputation as a player can help you get $luts, but not much else. Girls will give you way more last minute resistance cuz they know you are going to hit it and quit it.

 

[Mr Wright]

If you want to bang multiple girls in the same social circle, you need to work out how the other girls will react to it. Some social groups will be like "oh that's Karen's guy now" and won't touch you, whilst others are a little more open.

So when you do bang the first girl, shut the f*ck up and make sure she knows it's casual and on no uncertain terms are you exclusive to her and it's just fun. At college, it's usually what girls want anyway at the start but they tend to naturally drift towards a relationship so once you bang her, keep it strictly business.

Secondly, if the other girls find out, play it down as random drunk hook up, don't engage in a real conversation with them about it and if the times right kiss them as soon as they bring it up, it'll defuse the situation.

Thirdly, since you have a reputation this one will be hard to implement but I like to offer girls discretion, I don't talk about my sex life too openly because it can be offputting to some girls. I've made out/f*cked enough girls in my social circle to realise that keeping quiet, keeps the peace. I don't kiss and tell, which works to my advantage.

 

[Jaylan]

im not talking so much about how to close...i'm saying how do i handle this making out with and gaming multiple girls in the same social circle? tone it down or not give a fvck and just do what i want. I have a reputation amongst them of being a player and being completely fearless when it comes to girls

Social circles mix like this in college. Guys and girls tended to pass each other off at my school too when I was there. It wasnt a big college, so it happens.

You basically just gotta make sure things are purely physical. Once feelings get involved on either end, then you cant be moving around within the same social circle. Just have fun, and if a girl brings up your behavior, just tell her that youre only concerned with enjoying your time with her at that moment.

Depending on the social circle, the girls and guys will be cool with sharing. However in other circles, jealousy can form quickly. Just keep your ears up and have fun.

 

[zekko]

I would think most guys here would tell you to escalate as hard as fast as you can. I don't think that what you're doing is wrong necessarily.

It's just that sometimes when you go in for the makeout so fast, the girl doesn't have time to figure out how she feels about you first. In her mind, her friend is introducing you to a cool guy that she might like, but you're coming across like a guy who wants a one night stand.

 

[gravityeyelids]

All i want is one night stands and casual sex. I'm very discrete in general anyway, and hopefully have a reputation for being so. Honestly this is a "secondary social circle" if that's a thing...I know these girls just from my friend who is hooking up with the alex girl, and it's pretty far removed from my main social circles, which would probably work to my advantage.

Basically, i want to be known in their circle as the fun guy who is a good lay whom they can pass between them just to have a good time. And honestly, the only time i see these girls is when we're all partying and everyone is drunk as fvck, so the whole "it was just a drunk hookup" thing might work very well.

I guess the main thing is to feel it out next time i hang with them. As we know, girls talk to each other like crazy so they all know who i've hooked up with and crap. Luckily, i have this alex chick gunning hard for me, and i can just ask her point blank what so-and-so thinks of me and whether i should slow down a bit.

I;m pretty indifferent to the whole situation. Worst case they think im an a$$hole and i just dont party with that group any more. Best case i get some good lays or a f-buddy out of it.

 

[Dgwizdal]

You're number one problem is that you haven't banged any of these chicks. This needs to be done to establish preselection amongst the social circle. IMMEDIATELY

Slow down on the making out and make them chase a bit - up the game level here instead of relying on a chick to put the good word in. You're not a rookie here: up the attraction and then back off.

Also - too much making out will plateau sexual interest. 30 seconds and then eject to make her work for it. Game, then make her follow you into a bedroom or bathroom and escalate. If she ain't goin then back off and game another day. Chances are if the HB who didn't f*ck you sees her friendemy jockin you - this will increase interest.

Social circle game is actual very easy and sustainable if played right. Make sure you flirt and get in good with the girls who you are NOT interested in or who are taken as well. The more value and preselection you can create, the better. ALWAYS BE THAT FUN GUY. ALWAYS be making your rounds with every girl at the bar/party. ALWAYS be flirting.

Yours Truely,
The fun guy who is a good lay that all the girls in my social keep coming back to for more. Play it right - they'll all talk to eachother how you're a jerk d-bag and then try to get alone Time with you or catty with eachother when you're hanging out with one instead of the other. When you walk into the party or bar - you will be swarmed.

At the end of the day, the fact that you're blacklisted will make you that much more attractive. The forbidden fruits are the most desired. PM me if you want more advice - I am a master of this trade.