Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Multiple Girls and Valentines Day

Johnnie5

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Well its 6 weeks will valentines day and i can pre-empt the problem already

I've been gaming a few girls lately and can see big problems as valentines day comes along

Never had an issue in the past as only had 1 girl on the go when it has come around in the past

so the question is what are you guys doing about this problem ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DonJuanMonk

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This is a post from a 30 year old? Yeah right, you're really 17, now go back to the high school forum please. Thanks.

And who gives a shat about Valentines Day, only dumb biatches make a big heehaa about it.
 

Johnnie5

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ah good to see the peanut gallery has come out in such fine form

You are right its the girls that give a 5hit about valentines day and are going to be expecting maybe some dinner , at least some get together time

the question is how do you manage this with several girls on the 1 day without coming unstuck
 

Ricky

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Thats 6 weeks away. Things will certainly shake out by then. But if not you will have to construct a reason not to be with one or two ot them that day. Something about work or school could help.

Then take one of them out the weekend before it and one the weekend after.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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golfguy

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Valentine's Day if for couple's in my opinion. Unless you're seeing a girl exclusive, it's really pointless.

If you do want to do something for it however. just pick the best out of the lot like somewhat said, think of something different to do. And you might just get a reward for it.

Too far a way to be thinking of for me, but that's just my opinion.
 
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