"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Multiple Girls and Valentines Day

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Well its 6 weeks will valentines day and i can pre-empt the problem already

I've been gaming a few girls lately and can see big problems as valentines day comes along

Never had an issue in the past as only had 1 girl on the go when it has come around in the past

so the question is what are you guys doing about this problem ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is a post from a 30 year old? Yeah right, you're really 17, now go back to the high school forum please. Thanks.

And who gives a shat about Valentines Day, only dumb biatches make a big heehaa about it.
 
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ah good to see the peanut gallery has come out in such fine form

You are right its the girls that give a 5hit about valentines day and are going to be expecting maybe some dinner , at least some get together time

the question is how do you manage this with several girls on the 1 day without coming unstuck
 
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Thats 6 weeks away. Things will certainly shake out by then. But if not you will have to construct a reason not to be with one or two ot them that day. Something about work or school could help.

Then take one of them out the weekend before it and one the weekend after.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Valentine's Day if for couple's in my opinion. Unless you're seeing a girl exclusive, it's really pointless.

If you do want to do something for it however. just pick the best out of the lot like somewhat said, think of something different to do. And you might just get a reward for it.

Too far a way to be thinking of for me, but that's just my opinion.
 
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