diablo
Master Don Juan
What's wrong with the way it's working now?
*****"If it ain't broke, don't fix it." - Unknown*****
*****"If it ain't broke, don't fix it." - Unknown*****
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Multiple age forums....
- Thread starter diablo
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
We just don't have the numbers to break it up anymore.
The majority of our members are highschool and college. They sum up the HS and DJD forums. Then everyone else is pretty much mature man. There is less than 5 40- people on this board so...
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Ouch...
