She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Oh, please. If you're by yourself and outnumbered, or the other guy has a gun, you could be Arnold himself but your chest can't deflect bullets, and real thugs know that. I don't know what world you live in, but its obviously very different from mine.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dumbass.
Stop crying like a chick; I was joking because every wimp on here is always talking this alpha shyt all the time.Marlimus said:
A poor Austrian immigrant who barely speaks english becomes the best bodybuilder in the world, becomes an action hero icon for almost a decade, makes hundreds of millions of dollars, has sex with the most beautiful women in the world, and becomes Governor of a state that, if it were to secede from the US, would be the fifth largest economy in the world?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Marlimus said:
So I guess Tom Cruise is an Alpha male too. Sure he's a little weird but at least he's got the balls to admit it and show everyone.SELF-MASTERY said:
I know, but STYLE isn't my leader or alpha gauge; He's a lil byatch.Marlimus said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Microphone Fiend said:
I'm sorry to all the Canadians on this board but I cant resist this. Thats too funny, I used to have a running joke with a canadian friend of mine about how the worst he could do was beat me with a hockey stick. Thats good stuffflippinfreak said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Man that sucks. 600 bucks is nothing to a real dealer though, it's part of earning the territory being mugged. It gives you free reign to go back and kick the guys assdannowillbookem said:
i didnt even know the guy, so he got lucky he just happened to pick teh kid who unloaded all secondhand blow at a party. i had great margins too but after that i was just like what the hell am i doing this forflippinfreak said:Man that sucks. 600 bucks is nothing to a real dealer though, it's part of earning the territory being mugged. It gives you free reign to go back and kick the guys ass
I tried to deal before, I was like 13 and a total AFC. I got mugged three times in the same day. One guy did it right in my face, in front of like 30 people, I didn't even try to man up even though I was taller than him. I asked on of the bigger guys to help me, and they said they'd help if I sucked their c0cks, the guy stood up and walked away without looking back with all of his friends staring back laughing at me... I felt so tooled.