Muddled the opening, how to salvage?

[Leporello]

SO...this is a little complicated, bear with me.

A couple of weeks ago i had this high school semi-reunion; basically just an open house for anybody who graduated from my HS before a certain year. While I was there I saw a cute girl who was a year below me who I knew a little bit. Anyway we started chatting blah blah etc etc. Nothing 'happened'. The next day she friended me on Facebook.

Fast forward to yesterday. We were using facebook chat and i mentioned that I was going to make mulled (spiced) wine sometime next weekend. She responded that if I was doing that, to let her know so she could come by.

THE PROBLEM IS I didn't see this chick for the 5 years since I graduated and so I barely know her, and there was never any indication that this is a 'date' of any kind. My question is: should I just let her come over (just the two of us) so I can drink wine and lay game on her, or should I re-arrange things so they're a bit less awkward?

 

[Joe Stud]

stop making hurdles where there is none. it's clear sailing. just do it!

 

[ThatMysteriousGuy]

SO...this is a little complicated, bear with me.

A couple of weeks ago i had this high school semi-reunion; basically just an open house for anybody who graduated from my HS before a certain year. While I was there I saw a cute girl who was a year below me who I knew a little bit. Anyway we started chatting blah blah etc etc. Nothing 'happened'. The next day she friended me on Facebook.

Fast forward to yesterday. We were using facebook chat and i mentioned that I was going to make mulled (spiced) wine sometime next weekend. She responded that if I was doing that, to let her know so she could come by.

THE PROBLEM IS I didn't see this chick for the 5 years since I graduated and so I barely know her, and there was never any indication that this is a 'date' of any kind. My question is: should I just let her come over (just the two of us) so I can drink wine and lay game on her, or should I re-arrange things so they're a bit less awkward?

Don't lay game at all man. Tell her you're busy in the daytime and arrange for her to come over later in the evening.

Just relax, don't talk too much about insignificant/negative stuff that's happened to you in the last 5 years, just drink wine, talk about movies/positive stuff, and make a physical move. She's coming at you like a GPS controlled missile. Avoid extended ramblings about obscure wine facts...she doesn't care about that. She's very interested. If you don't make a move that evening she'll think you're lame (or, she's not attractive enough!) she won't come over again and repeat a negative experience. She's specifically trying to come over and drink alcohol alone with you!

Trust me, from the outside looking in this isn't a cloudy situation at all. I mean really, a pretty woman has got nothing better to do than drink and watch you make wine on the weekend? That's just her having an excuse to fvck your brains out :crackup: