"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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(Much) Older Women, how to?

HKgunslinger

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I posted this in the Main forum, didn't get very many responses, too much filled with newbies asking obvious questions, maybe youse older guys can help me here:

OK, I'm not brand-new to the game and I do got a lot of skill, but it doesn't seem to help much with older women.

The problem seems to be I can't get past initial conversation. Like I can tell they are into me by the usual signs of attraction, but when I try to get a number or email they start getting embarassed like it's somehow wrong to want to talk with someone 10-20 years younger than them. I give the usual about what does age matter, they look young, etc. and at that point SOME of them will give a number or email.

I've got game for girls my age down pat, but I could care less about them, older women are my thing.

Any pointers/tips/suggestions from anyone on how to game the older ones into hooking up? Learned from experience it definitely takes serious persuasion, but is that all? Is there some kind of method for getting the older ones? My biggest enemy is the social taboo of the age gap, it seems women are too hung-up on this.
I need some direction here.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No Escape

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Act like there's nothing wrong(which is true, because there's nothing wrong with it) with younger men hooking up with older women, and make them believe it. When they say "I'm old enough to be your mother", and i've had this happen to me before, i acted confident and stood my ground by basically telling her "so what?", confidently, and convincing her that there's nothing wrong with it. Tell them age is only a #, cause that's all it is. Also, maybe be a little persistent. The first MILF i went home with, in order to go home with her, i had to be really persistent, but not in an obvious and annoying way. The second MILF wasn't a problem.
 

No Escape

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And I totally agree with you, older women (40-50 year old range) are definitely without a doubt the best! I to, could care less about the younger ones.
 

DJnoob

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Got milfs number

called her like a week later since ive been busy...r, called her at an unusual time like 9:30 pm. My message on her answering machine was "linda, its me mike, call me back 999-999-9999 later"

she's a single chick in her 40s, lives byhefself, goes to bars etc etc..., how do milfs like this like to be treated? I mean.. can someone give me some pointers here.... i know, treat them like a regular person bla bla blah.. but i mean, other than that?

Do they like confident young males, ****y and funny type..

I also hear they dont like "games".. can you be more specific about this.

Thanks
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I've been on a run of MILFs lately. What I've noticed is that the ones that are the most fun and aren't hung up about age are the ones not being treated as an 'older' woman. In other words, I don't make age an issue.

I flirt with them, they flirt back. They complement me and once in a while I give them one. We hang out together and do physical activities, go to the gym, ride our bikes, cook dinner together; and there is always kino of some sort. They end up feeling really comfortable and then things just happen.

Don't make anything out of the age thing. Don't even bring it up. If they do, be indifferent. Hell, there's a couple I've 'been with' recently and I have no idea how old they are what so ever, and really I don't care.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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