"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MTV's "MADE"
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Go call Tariq Nasheed an "ugly, fat, black guy". You will get pimp slapped. or worse, d1ck slappedOriginally posted by deacon
His made teacher was an ugly, fat, black guy!He had no chance.
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Brian was worst than most AFC's I imagine. Did you see his penguin walk? Banana shoes? He described his face as oblong?
All he need was, better style/clothes, mainstream hobbies (has dungeon and dragons ever turned on a woman?) and a mainstream/normal vocabulary. Change a few things, and it's not that hard to start pulling normal 5's and 6's. Up his game a notch higher, and 7's, 7.5's are right there.....and this is from a guy that use to bow to women, lol.
These shows should give everyone hope.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Plus, that part with the fat girl:
Him: You wanna roll with me?
Fat Chick: I can get jiggy with that.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
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His reply was to keep trying until she surrenders. Even if it takes calling her all of the time or visiting her where she works!
He had no clue about anything and tried to be overly ghetto about being "The Mack". I thought the guy was ignorant and tasteless. I'll have to DVR Made and check it out and see if the brother had retrained himself.
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