"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MTV new year's party? Yay or Nay?

jbbrain

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Gents,


Funny that my first thread started in so long is manifesting itself in form of seeming banality and void....but


I got an invite to the MTV New years party in New York...but im thinking it can just be a hunk of glittery superficial nothingness...the majority of my best friends wont be there...

Has anybody been to this party? Is it crunk? Or just another episode of "Access Hollywood"? Would it be stupid to turn down this invite?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hot Ice

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Would it be stupid to turn down this invite?
Yes, it is stupid to turn down a party.
 

Panda 2000

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If it were me I'd turn it down, because that's not my kind of thing. Just ask yourself if you want to go there or not.
 

coldcoal

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Burn that f*cker. You'll be hearded like a cow with no identity.
 
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