Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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~msn~

Do you use MSN?

  • Yes

    Votes: 11 78.6%
  • No

    Votes: 3 21.4%

  • Total voters
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Climax

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For all those using MSN... If you want to chat to one another and u do not use chat programms such as IRC etc, then please submit your MSN email address so that people on this site will be able to chat to one another. Just an idea;)

MY MSN email addy:

[email protected]


If you do not have MSN yet and would like to START using it, then please visit the MSN website and download it.

Laterz...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Climax

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Whats the point of saying yes and not writing down your addresses?

Thanx for the reply silverwex...

To all the others that voted... the whole point of this was to give your msn addy's so that we could all interact with eachother, not just tick the "yes" or "no" option.:rolleyes:

Please reply giving your MSN addresses. Thanx. ;)
 

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Re: Whats the point of saying yes and not writing down your addresses?

Originally posted by aequitas
To all the others that voted... the whole point of this was to give your msn addy's so that we could all interact with eachother, not just tick the "yes" or "no" option.:rolleyes:
If you click no, like me, then what's the point of giving your MSN address? :rolleyes:
 

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Re: Re: Whats the point of saying yes and not writing down your addresses?

Originally posted by diablo
If you click no, like me, then what's the point of giving your MSN address? :rolleyes:
I was directing that post to the people that clicked on "YES" ... I thought that the people that voted "no" would know that i was not adressing them, as it is a given, is it not?

Anyways... If you dont use it, then i think that it would be really nice if you downloaded it so that we could all have a chat there on msn;)

Laterz...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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my msn is [email protected] if u guys wanna chat or something add me else ignore it...
 

Climax

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I expected more replies than this!

Bump
 

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we did this in the Hs forum back in the days. just ended up with 50+ contacts that i never spoke to.
 

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Been there, done that.

You making a poll about it.... PRICELESS!!



:rolleyes: :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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