"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LilKid

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Best piece of advice I can give you, is if you HAVE to talk to girls on this, please please please don't automatically save your conversations to my documents. I have just been looking over some old logs and they have made me depressed on the **** I used to say. There's no use overanalyzing something that happened months ago, yet I still find myself doing it.

Peace Out
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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gav

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yeh, i was the same and whenever i had a good conversation i'd start to think "i need to follow that exact plan in the future". well fuk that, convos are in the moment, life is in the moment
 
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