"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MSN or phone number

saber101

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Well since i'm in grade 10 and MSN is all the rage, i was just wondering, do you think you should get a girls e-mail, or phone number first. Because sometimes i just wanna keep it casual and asking for a phone number might be coming on too strong, and might be a huge indication to them that u like them, giving them the upperhand. But adding them on your MSN list might also be too casual and might make them think u just want to be friends. what do you think
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Docs

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You see them everyday right? (or close enough) It's just a phone number..or email. Enjoy yourself, don't worry about getting a girl. If she likes you, she'll let you know, HS girls are like that somehow..
 

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what docs said plus also try to avoid talking to girls on msn, in person or phone is much much better
 
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