Well since i'm in grade 10 and MSN is all the rage, i was just wondering, do you think you should get a girls e-mail, or phone number first. Because sometimes i just wanna keep it casual and asking for a phone number might be coming on too strong, and might be a huge indication to them that u like them, giving them the upperhand. But adding them on your MSN list might also be too casual and might make them think u just want to be friends. what do you think