GetWhatUGive
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Any tips on how to work it on Messenger? I'm talking like not to be always on there, what if you say hi and she doesn't respond, stuff like that. Thanks.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Yeah, here's a tip, log off of it. 
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^^^^^^^^^^^
I agree
I agree
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First of all, wait a few minutes to see if she comes on or says 'hi' back, or just try again later. It doesn't mean anything much, and next time she may initiate to you.
Other things that I do in those scenerios is I may do one of two things:
1) A monologue with myself, a solique if you will, and talk to myself while she is on, and then say, I'm more exciting to talk with than she is, at least I can hold a conversation, and then say bye.
or this;
2) Tell her to excuse you, you sent it to the wrong girl,
or this;
3) Wait a few seconds and tell her you've just enjoyed a very stimulating conversation with her, and are simply dying to meet her, knowing that you will have a very exciting and stimulating date together. And then say, you've never had such an exciting time talking to anyone like her before.
Put it into perspective. It's Crash and Burn, it's happy-go-lucky, not to take very seriously. The above posters are very cynical about MSN messenger, but if you are going to hit the pavement, then go down in style.
The last one is an example of ****y and funny. The first one is also ****y and funny depending on what you are talking to yourself about - assuming you are cracking jokes at the subject girl. Etc... use it to show your personality that you dont care and are different from the other guys. And if this one blows apart, make it blow apart good, have some entertainment and look at it like an online fireworks display.
Other things that I do in those scenerios is I may do one of two things:
1) A monologue with myself, a solique if you will, and talk to myself while she is on, and then say, I'm more exciting to talk with than she is, at least I can hold a conversation, and then say bye.
or this;
2) Tell her to excuse you, you sent it to the wrong girl,
or this;
3) Wait a few seconds and tell her you've just enjoyed a very stimulating conversation with her, and are simply dying to meet her, knowing that you will have a very exciting and stimulating date together. And then say, you've never had such an exciting time talking to anyone like her before.
Put it into perspective. It's Crash and Burn, it's happy-go-lucky, not to take very seriously. The above posters are very cynical about MSN messenger, but if you are going to hit the pavement, then go down in style.
The last one is an example of ****y and funny. The first one is also ****y and funny depending on what you are talking to yourself about - assuming you are cracking jokes at the subject girl. Etc... use it to show your personality that you dont care and are different from the other guys. And if this one blows apart, make it blow apart good, have some entertainment and look at it like an online fireworks display.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
hahaha, this one is good.
No man, dont tell him to log off. Chatting is a great way to practice ****y and negative hitters on girls.
If you say a simple " hi", you will not get a response from a hot chick most of the time. She just unconciously forgets about your message.
Your message must target one of her insecurities, so you must have known her from before and observed her. you must not come off as a prick though, try to make it sound sincere. You must send messages that have double meaning, as in you are complimenting them and putting them down massively as well. I have specific examples of chats to share with you if you wanna private message me.
She will constantly test you to get the upperhand on you. The reason is that as soon as she gets the upperhand, she wont respond because in her mind she is happy and has won now and doesnt want to continue. You must KEEP negging her and target her insecurities. Make fun of her, make her seem like she is coming on to you. These things unconciously make her want to defend her self and get the upperhand on you..... THE WAY HAS BEGUN MY FRIEND, and you must KEEP the role that is working. If you become nice or change your role, she will know you were faking and will NEVER respond to you.
Cheers man, hope it helped.
P.S Dont focus on one girl, and dont take anything they say or do seriously. Just attack like 20 girls all at once and talk to all of them and out of those tou will ge a few good conversations going. Who cares about them, you want to practice right? ;-)))))))
ciao
No man, dont tell him to log off. Chatting is a great way to practice ****y and negative hitters on girls.
If you say a simple " hi", you will not get a response from a hot chick most of the time. She just unconciously forgets about your message.
Your message must target one of her insecurities, so you must have known her from before and observed her. you must not come off as a prick though, try to make it sound sincere. You must send messages that have double meaning, as in you are complimenting them and putting them down massively as well. I have specific examples of chats to share with you if you wanna private message me.
She will constantly test you to get the upperhand on you. The reason is that as soon as she gets the upperhand, she wont respond because in her mind she is happy and has won now and doesnt want to continue. You must KEEP negging her and target her insecurities. Make fun of her, make her seem like she is coming on to you. These things unconciously make her want to defend her self and get the upperhand on you..... THE WAY HAS BEGUN MY FRIEND, and you must KEEP the role that is working. If you become nice or change your role, she will know you were faking and will NEVER respond to you.
Cheers man, hope it helped.
P.S Dont focus on one girl, and dont take anything they say or do seriously. Just attack like 20 girls all at once and talk to all of them and out of those tou will ge a few good conversations going. Who cares about them, you want to practice right? ;-)))))))
ciao
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don't say hi. How should I start off then?
don't say hi. How should I start off then?
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I started with hi to two girls. Whoever said don't is full of sh!t.
Basically, you want to talk to them, get some common ground. They are interested in finding out what kind of a person you are, so it's not the time to keep sercets about yourself.
Use emotions, it adds colour/facial expression.
Tease. If she forgot your name (it's happened), or she can't remember exactly what something is, bug her about it.
What also happened, was I was being gay at the time, she called me a faggot, and I got all offended, and I told her I didn't like her. Right after that, she told me she didn't want to be friends with someone that didn't like her, so I started being really OMG about her not saying sorry. We carried that on for a bit, and then it's like, yeah, we're kidding.
Really, don't be a boring person that says 'uhh' and 'oh yea, interesting, tell me more', that's all I can say. If you seem like fun, vaguely interesting, and you got something in common, then you're halfway there.
Basically, you want to talk to them, get some common ground. They are interested in finding out what kind of a person you are, so it's not the time to keep sercets about yourself.
Use emotions, it adds colour/facial expression.
Tease. If she forgot your name (it's happened), or she can't remember exactly what something is, bug her about it.
What also happened, was I was being gay at the time, she called me a faggot, and I got all offended, and I told her I didn't like her. Right after that, she told me she didn't want to be friends with someone that didn't like her, so I started being really OMG about her not saying sorry. We carried that on for a bit, and then it's like, yeah, we're kidding.
Really, don't be a boring person that says 'uhh' and 'oh yea, interesting, tell me more', that's all I can say. If you seem like fun, vaguely interesting, and you got something in common, then you're halfway there.
I've got a girl I've been playing on msn and it led to a kiss just a couple of weeks ago. I have been doing everything and negging her a lot and keeping the conversation mostly sexual. I could of got laid by this girl but she isn't my type but msn help a lot in getting into her panties if I wanted to.
Some girls it works on some it doesn't.
Some girls it works on some it doesn't.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I dunno but Ive hardly ever used MSN for dating or even chatting, but I guess you do it the same as when you phone her, personally I'd rather go call the girl up and spend 5-10 mins chatting then sit for 30 mins typing, saves time.