"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MSN/ Cosmo reading sosuave?

BramhaBull60

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Look at this article on MSN this morning by a cosmo columnist on how to not get lbjed.

http://msn.match.com/msn/article.as...ngID=516311&BannerID=544657&menuid=6&GT1=6771


It actually seems that the mainstream media is catching on to how relationships work now, although a true DJ would never allow himself to be in the friends zone in the first place because his intentions are known right on the first meeting. Learning C and F, walking away, not pedestaling her are ways I have learned to stay out of that friends zone and are of course not mentioned, but this is a good start to see women finally admit that they know what panzies guys are for being freinds when what they want is sex or a relationship( or as I like to call it sex on a consistent basis lol)

What are all of your thoughts on this article?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hmm... that's a good article. I doubt anyone will take it seriously, though. So no need to worry...
 

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That is true. Society does still tend to push AFC behavoir with women. I forwarded this and sosuave to a friend who is going to reveal his crush to a girl hes in the friendszone with. I felt like rolling up a newspaper, swatting him and saying bad AFC, bad bad lol
 
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