"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Most of our politicians are men not because of discrimination but because the same women don't vote for other women nor support other women.
 

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Blame Men: "Barash believes that because we live in what is still a male-dominated society, women are apt to feel like there's not enough to go around for them, which feeds jealousy and resentment among women fighting for a smaller piece of the pie. 'If you're the gender that yields the power, you don't have to feel that way,' she said."

Blame Men: "'Many women are too busy to help each other,' she said. 'I own a business, work full time, I have two small children, do charity work, hobbies. I have a wonderful husband, but he doesn't do half the amount of things I do.'"

Blame Men: '"This is a double-edged sword because the same behaviors that a man enacts, when enacted by a woman, are often more memorable and trigger a backlash of sorts against the 'offending' woman," she said. "Men and women can enact the exact same behaviors, but it's seen as more hostile coming from a woman, likely because of the stereotypes we already hold.'"

Of course, the truth lies in this paragraph:

"Based on her research, women are more apt to help other women if there is a larger difference in age because they feel less threatened. 'I found that women would not befriend women who were eight or 10 years younger than them because of the competition.'"

Older women are afraid of being replaced by younger, more attractive women with greater reproductive value.
 

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LeftyLoosey said:
Blame Men: "Barash believes that because we live in what is still a male-dominated society, women are apt to feel like there's not enough to go around for them, which feeds jealousy and resentment among women fighting for a smaller piece of the pie. 'If you're the gender that yields the power, you don't have to feel that way,' she said."

Blame Men: "'Many women are too busy to help each other,' she said. 'I own a business, work full time, I have two small children, do charity work, hobbies. I have a wonderful husband, but he doesn't do half the amount of things I do.'"

Blame Men: '"This is a double-edged sword because the same behaviors that a man enacts, when enacted by a woman, are often more memorable and trigger a backlash of sorts against the 'offending' woman," she said. "Men and women can enact the exact same behaviors, but it's seen as more hostile coming from a woman, likely because of the stereotypes we already hold.'"

Of course, the truth lies in this paragraph:

"Based on her research, women are more apt to help other women if there is a larger difference in age because they feel less threatened. 'I found that women would not befriend women who were eight or 10 years younger than them because of the competition.'"

Older women are afraid of being replaced by younger, more attractive women with greater reproductive value.
Yes indeed ^.
That article offered an opportunity to highlight to women how ultimately destructive their backbiting behavior was, but, like many before her the author found ways of sliding some blame and fault across to men.
How the fuk are we responsible for what some baitchy female employee says in the women's rest room ?.
Women are entirely responsible for their own behavior, but I'm not holding my breath.
 

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And I just want to add that men are superior mentors because we are programmed to lead the pack. For us, mentoring is an outlet for demonstrating leadership qualities. It's an alpha thing...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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